Thread: Cheating

So, I recently started dating a guy that I've never met--Will. His sister is a really good friend of mine and he and I have become very close over the phone. We have so much in common and, though it's just conversation, the sexual attraction is through the roof. I'll be meeting him in a little over a week and now that it's so close and so real, I've been having the weirdest dreams.

Yesterday I dreamt that on his first visit we were shopping for a beach trip (which we do have planned) and we ran into my sister and agreed to come by her house. Then all of sudden one-by-one my whole family arrived. Even some people that aren't in reality related to me, but in my dream they were. And I felt myself worrying that he was getting overwhelmed. And then I realized I hadn't introduced him to anyone. Then my "uncle" started talking under his breath to me about Will, saying negative things. Will overheard and freaked out. He picked up a bottle of red wine and smashed it on the ground screaming and stormed out. Long story short, the dream just went downhill from there. Lots of drinking on his part and drug use and just treating me like dirt. He's given me no reason on the phone to think he would be like this. I shrugged it off as general anxiety about meeting him for the first time.

Then last night I dreamt that I cheated on him with my ex-boyfriend. Interestingly, my ex, Scot, he and I did not have a good sex life at all. Will has already topped it and we've never touched. I felt extremely guilty in the dream and was pretty sure that I had to tell him the truth and deal with the consequences because I couldn't handle deceiving him like that.

I have had problems in the past with getting bored with relationships and seeking out male attention which can easily lead to more than you mean for it to. So, maybe I'm nervous about getting bored or acting impulsively and messing this relationship up. Thoughts? Am I overthinking everything? Could this all be blamed on general anxiety about meeting him?

Yeah, your just thinking and worrying about it to much. Just see how it goes when you meet him face to face, nothing to worry about.

I think you're over thinking everything. Doesn't seem like there's anything to actually worry about. After you both start hanging out, things might be great, so look forward to the FUN.

Welcome to DreamViews! I'm going to have to agree with James and rynkrt on this one. Dont' doom the relationship before it even starts . It sounds like some anxiety. If I was you, I would tell him about the dream. Laugh it off and see what his reaction is. It may make you feel a lot better about it. Good luck!

Originally Posted by DreamEasy

So, I recently started dating a guy that I've never met--Will. His sister is a really good friend of mine and he and I have become very close over the phone. We have so much in common and, though it's just conversation, the sexual attraction is through the roof. I'll be meeting him in a little over a week and now that it's so close and so real, I've been having the weirdest dreams.

Yesterday I dreamt that on his first visit we were shopping for a beach trip (which we do have planned) and we ran into my sister and agreed to come by her house. Then all of sudden one-by-one my whole family arrived. Even some people that aren't in reality related to me, but in my dream they were. And I felt myself worrying that he was getting overwhelmed. And then I realized I hadn't introduced him to anyone. Then my "uncle" started talking under his breath to me about Will, saying negative things. Will overheard and freaked out. He picked up a bottle of red wine and smashed it on the ground screaming and stormed out. Long story short, the dream just went downhill from there. Lots of drinking on his part and drug use and just treating me like dirt. He's given me no reason on the phone to think he would be like this. I shrugged it off as general anxiety about meeting him for the first time.

Then last night I dreamt that I cheated on him with my ex-boyfriend. Interestingly, my ex, Scot, he and I did not have a good sex life at all. Will has already topped it and we've never touched. I felt extremely guilty in the dream and was pretty sure that I had to tell him the truth and deal with the consequences because I couldn't handle deceiving him like that.

I have had problems in the past with getting bored with relationships and seeking out male attention which can easily lead to more than you mean for it to. So, maybe I'm nervous about getting bored or acting impulsively and messing this relationship up. Thoughts? Am I overthinking everything? Could this all be blamed on general anxiety about meeting him?

Was the dream in color? Are you close to your family members?DreamEasy, the dream is revealing to you issues regarding Will that have need to be taken heed to. Your sister, family, close friends speak of a trustworthy voice that is part of your life. Your ex-boyfriend dream reveals to you that there are old issues/habbits that will seek to creep back into your life in the present relationship. This dream is a revealing and warning dream.