that's it? just reminding yourself all day that you're dreaming? are you getting DILDs then? to what extent do you think the meditation also helps, if you could guess? |
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hello i read "the tibetan yogas of dream and sleep" by tenzin wangyal rinpoche a few years ago but found it to be to rigourous to practice. however since then i have started meditating every day for a half hour, i quit drinking/smoking, etc. and now, having read the book again, i am practicing whole heartedly! i have had many lucid dreams before using MILD and some other techniques from stephen laberge but whenever i stop practicing i stop having them. i'm quite confident the tibetan method will work and am going to update here. the method is CONSTANTLY reminding yourself that you are dreaming, ALL DAY. really feeling it not just saying, or thinking it. in theory if you are always thinking this then it will manifest in your dreams as well which will help you attain lucidity. i have been doing it since the start of march. it is tough because i work at a bank and have to think about lots of math but i feel that with the presence of mind i've acheived through meditation i am suited for this technique now more than ever. wish me luck! if anyone has any questions let me know and i'll be glad to answer. there's a lot more i could say about the yogas and buddhism in general (i've spent some time with chan monks at the temple in missouri). |
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that's it? just reminding yourself all day that you're dreaming? are you getting DILDs then? to what extent do you think the meditation also helps, if you could guess? |
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“I think we dream so we don't have to be apart so long. If we're in each other's dreams, we can be together all the time.” -
Am I dreaming? Do a Reality Check. Is this is a dream?
Hey Zac, I'll be following your progress. I read the book recently, along with ETWOLD. And I've been meditating twice a day for a couple weeks now, and working on chakras. |
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Yeah, so I've started doing this, but it's more than just saying "I'm dreaming" I've been recalling that feeling of "I'm dreaming" that you get when you become lucid. Kinda like when you recall the feeling of a pain pill and it relaxes you (a feeling I used to recall when swallowing any kind of pill, kind of a "pavlov's dog" thing) |
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The real key is actually realizing that your waking life is no different than you dream life. Not just telling yourself you are dreaming or even trying to believe it, but realizing that being awake is in fact just another dream. |
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The ability to happily respond to any adversity is the divine.
Dream Journal Shaman Apprentice Chronicles
beach girl, |
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lacer, |
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dark matters, yeah i thought the same thing!!!!!! no dreams?????? wtf??? yeah for that reason i'm not going to go into the depths of this practice and just stick with some lucid applications and meditation during the day! also i'm skipping the end section on how to be aware in sleep. again WTF??? i like sleeping to ha ha! have you had any success? how long have you been doing it? |
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xangria, |
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I've practiced some dream yoga, primarily pondering on the illusory nature of reality. It works. |
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waking nomad, |
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OK EVERYBODY, i summed up for beach girl but here's the full update: its been six days and i've had this happen: i'm dreaming i'm standing in my kitchen and i hear a dial up internet tone. i look for the source and follow it to my laundry room where, instead of my phone jack, there is water spattered on the wall. the dial up tone starts to sound like loud white noise static (sh2 noise effect). i start to feel paralyzed and things get dim. i think about yelling for help but then say to myself "i'm just dreaming." and i then felt relaxed and let myself fall. i then woke up. obviously the dream was ending and the dimmness was the sign and the paralysis was my brain linking with my sleep paralyzed real REM body. the funny thing is i DID NOT KNOW I WAS DREAMING! so this means that it may take some time for my dream consciousness to fully integrate the idea that it really is a dream but also that i have created a safety net which makes stress and worry much much weaker! it works in waking life also, stress at work or worry about bills i blow off as "just a dream" and feel much better. although don't get me wrong i'm still doing my job and paying the bills |
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this is a great thread, |
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“I think we dream so we don't have to be apart so long. If we're in each other's dreams, we can be together all the time.” -
Am I dreaming? Do a Reality Check. Is this is a dream?
Zac, Im not really trying the Tibetan Yogas techniques... I've been doing Vipassana (mindfulness meditation) for a couple weeks (mostly to help with LDing, but also for the long-term ego-squelching benefits), and just recently started doing Chakra healing, which is AMAZING! |
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ok update time still no lucid but i'm noticing my waking consciousness and my dream consciousness are starting to link up, for example i keep dreaming i'm in my apartment in my morning dreams when this never used to happen. and another example is i referenced my waking thoughts in a dream: i dreamed i was at a bar and when i woke up i felt i dreamed this because i'd been there before but wasn't sure, then in a dream later in the night i dreamed i drove by this place by accident and decided i'd stop in for directions because it was the place i had dreamed about that i had been before... confusing? sorry. a couple nights ago i had a dream that i was going to a dream seminar, so it's definately starting to sink in. also my dream recall is INCREDIBLE!!! i'm remembering around four dreams per night and i keep waking up BEFORE my alarm goes off (i set it for 4.5, 6, and 7.5 hours after bedtime)! i keep waking up frustrated that i'm not having lucid dreams but then using this method throughout the day keeps making me feel GREAT! it's almost like making this habit starts to bring that joyful feeling upon recognizing dreaming into waking life. |
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sleepyzac, some of what you said reminds me of what arnold mindell calls this "flirting with reality" and is part of what he teaches in "lucid dreaming while awake" |
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“I think we dream so we don't have to be apart so long. If we're in each other's dreams, we can be together all the time.” -
Am I dreaming? Do a Reality Check. Is this is a dream?
Glad to see it is working for you. I used to rock the whole dream-yoga practice. Daytime practice, night time practice. The works. I don't do it anymore, because I found it was interfering with other things I like to do with my life. |
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yeah i'm pretty much always trying to tame my mind and doing this all day works so i'm cool with that. it's a good habit to keep bad habits at bay. why smoke a cigarette or eat bad food if you're just dreaming? you don't need it. and why get depressed? it's just a dream. etc. the author said you cultivate the ability to alter emotions in the dream state and carry it into waking as well, i look forward to this. any idea why no lucid yet? is it because it's only been nine days? how long did it take you? any tips? |
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