 Originally Posted by gab
Exactly. I happened to me as well, that I got a WILD or OBE just seconds after "giving up". In other words, when I stopped trying hard and wishing for it. Also, just after changing position.
We have to let it happen on it's own. We do our daytime mental preparation, but at night, we should be passive observers. Let our mind surprise us. To me, a WILD/OBE is like a cat. More you call it to come to you, more reluctant it is to come. But show it "I don't care if you don't come to me" attitude, and it just may jump into your lap the moment you stop paying attention to it.
Bingo! Eliminate the "trying to". "Trying to" sleep, "trying to" WILD, "trying to" DEILD, etc., usually results in just a bunch of "trying" and no sleep/dream/WILD. DEILD is probably the clearest example of this: lightly consider a dream, and just drift off, and all of a sudden, there's the dream, waiting for you!
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