Thread: Love(not sex) in a dream

I once fell in love with a pot of yoghurt or something like that. So, no, you probably don't love them. Still, I did wake up crying about that fucking yoghurt pot.

EDIT: Here's the post about it.

Yeah I've also felt love in a dream...

It really sucks to wake up afterward and realize your love was just a dream. Always makes me really happy to have felt that way, but extremely sad at the same time. Tears of joy mixed with tears of sorrow, very interesting emotion none the less.

Originally posted by Mickeys_Elbow
Yeah I've also felt love in a dream...

It really sucks to wake up afterward and realize your love was just a dream. Always makes me really happy to have felt that way, but extremely sad at the same time. Tears of joy mixed with tears of sorrow, very interesting emotion none the less.

but the thing is, I not sure that i want to love them

Is this a person you actually know in RL? The people I have fallen in love with in dreams are completely made up dream characters, so there is no doubt as to whether or not I love them... I always will. Maybe someday I'll meet one of them.

Originally posted by Mickeys_Elbow
It really sucks to wake up afterward and realize your love was just a dream

All love is like that, it's only real for as long as it lasts. After it's over, it's a bitter sweet dream.

I've had dreams like that, only I do like the people that i dream about and love in the dream.

Vox

In my experience, feelings are often far more intense in dreams that in real life, especially intense emotions like love or sadness. What Kaniaz said about falling in love with a pot of yogurt is pretty believable. Unless you feel the same way about that person when you're awake, I wouldn't pay too much attention to that dream.

those are some of my best dreams because that love feels so good (betchya thought i was gonna say "real"). even better than a wettie.

Yeah I've also felt love in a dream...

It really sucks to wake up afterward and realize your love was just a dream. Always makes me really happy to have felt that way, but extremely sad at the same time. Tears of joy mixed with tears of sorrow, very interesting emotion none the less.[/b]

I had a dream like that. It was a sad dream too (to me) but that feel i had made it one of the best dreams I have ever had. Fortunatly I know and feel the same about the person in RL so It wasn't so sad as It could have been. I would say this is my favorite dream but at the very end there were caracters for malcom in the middle that ruined it.

Originally posted by Mickeys_Elbow
Is this a person you actually know in RL? The people I have fallen in love with in dreams are completely made up dream characters, so there is no doubt as to whether or not I love them... I always will. Maybe someday I'll meet one of them. *

i know them in real life. I dont realy want to fall in love, but I want to be true to my self.

I'm not sure what to tell you. Your subconscious could be telling you that you do have feelings for this person. I know that before lucid dreaming I dreamed about my crush almost every night. (I still did after lding but this time I chose it. ) I did once have a semi-lucid about a guy I wasn't sure if I liked. I went out with him in the dream, but after a bit I felt something wasn't right and broke it off. When I woke up that morning I suddenly knew for sure I didn't like this guy. If you haven't been sure about this girl before the dream I think you should really consider that you have feelings for her. If not I wouldn't dwell on it too much. Maybe you could try going out with her in your next lucid and see how it goes.

i think dreams are the only place in which love can exist.

IRL, its something else, but I hold on to the hope someone will prove me wrong.

Oh God, Love is wonderful in a dream. Even if it's just a feeling....sex too, but whatever!

Don't worry about it. I've had several dreams where I had infatuations with girls I never thought I'd really be attracted to in real life. I woke up shocked, thinking "do I really like this person?" It was something to consider.

I think both crap and meaningful stuff happen in dreams. Don't take it too seriously.

I've had a dream like this about someone I know in real life (and was very attracted to at the time). The strangest thing was that I almost expected her to have shared in the experience...as if it was really her in the dream. When I was talking to her the next day I had to do a bit of a double-take and I thought to myself, 'Wait a tick, that didn't happen'. Very strange.

well i think that the dream could just be a slight interest that is showing not nessacarily love...
but in my expeirence if you really do love the person the dreams about them are common and intense......not like physical but the feeelings are intense as in super string...those kinds of dreams have an effect a long time after i wake up....

Originally posted by Mickeys_Elbow
Yeah I've also felt love in a dream...

It really sucks to wake up afterward and realize your love was just a dream. Always makes me really happy to have felt that way, but extremely sad at the same time. Tears of joy mixed with tears of sorrow, very interesting emotion none the less.

I know, it does indeed suck. Its an amazing feeling, but I am sad when I wake up.

We had the same discussion at ld4all. In the end I believe people decided that Love, sex, and sexuality all go out of control and don't follow any logic.

i had this weird dream where the person i despratley love kissed me but i could tell it was a dream which sucks but i try and get with her in the real life but she dosent want to go boy/girl friend this person is not (luckegirl) k cass i think she really likes me but wont admit it which is why i loved this dream so much. this is been my dream and i hope to continue it!

u should be able 2 tell i was pissed when my dream ended but i do have one question if we have a dream and enjoy it but it could happen does that meen nething in our futre real life?

hi

Erm...hello. New here? Check out the Newbie Zone. It should help you understand these topics.

Anyway. I had a dream a few days ago where I was talking to this girl and I was like, "You're not doing anything, and I'm not doing anything, so why don't we go out?" So we did. It was a pretty bland relationship, though.

Well, a few weeks before that I had another dream (I don't remember if I've posted it in my DJ yet) that was WAY long. Like, months. Anyway, through the whole dream I had the same g/f, and about 1/4 of the way through I married her. That was a very deep one...like, way emotional and all.

All in all, my dreams over the past have followed the same pattern: Apparently my mind can't accept the middle ground. It's a way loving relationship, or a blah-type relationship.

it wasn't lucid, but i remember in one of my dreams i adopted a japanese couple from a car crash and adopted them as my children and i remember feeling that i never wanted to leave them because i loved them so much.

I once had a dream where I fell in love with the girl Yuna from FFX-2 (Yes yes, video game geek I am I am) but it didn't really look like her, I remeber, I actually got bursts of happiness when she'd walk into a room. and I did check her out and the other stuff, but hey, it's my dream so whatever. But it was really sad, I got really attached. But a couple of days later I'd pretty much forgotten about it, so it isnt love I dont think (I dont think i've ever experience love) maybe like a crush or something.

And the person who mentioned the Yogurt pot thing, I've felt things like that (no nessesarily towards a yogurt pot) where I grew really attached to an item, it almost told a story to me, I'd wake up hugging my pillow or blanket, or whatever I could get my hands on. .......... But then i'm a bit insecure