I'm not into drugs anymore, and I'm very mildly into drinking. Sex? *sigh* What sex? I'm a little too single at the moment. In my life, I've only ever slept with two men and I loved them both very much. So I've never experienced the sex-without-love thing. I've always felt some strong emotional connection with my lover. Whether they felt the same is their business, so I can only speak from my own perspective. I can't imagine sex without some sort of loving connection. I mean, wouldn't it be kind of... I don't know... bland? In a hypothetical situation, I certainly wouldn't kick, say, Hugh Jackman or Viggo Mortensen out of my bed. But I imagine that the act itself would still be quite bland. Sure, I'd get off, but what's the point? I can do that on my own. I could be wrong, but I think that love takes the act of sex to an entirely new level.