Thread: About to quit

Originally Posted by DreamingDragon

it seems LD isnt for me, as you notied from my siggy, i only manage 1 LD.....

for past month i been trying very hard to have LD. but lastnight i had 3 give Dead give aways yet i didnt notie them, I moved from my old house, so when i looked outside i was the old front yard(Should been give away) then i asked DC, what is your dream job, then i asked them again, and YET I DIDNT NOT BECOME LD.

I FAIL!!!! I NEED TIPS PLZ!

The most important tip is to be patient! If you're trying to hard, and you're not making any progress, hold off for a little while. The paradox is that, sometimes you can try too hard, and your anticipation of not wanting to fail is what makes you fail. And on the other hand, sometimes you can try and try and try, fail, stop trying, and then BOOM you get a spontaneous lucid just by giving it a rest.

Hell, I've been lucid dreaming for a really long time, and sometimes I can still go for a month or so without having one. And also, if I can have a dream where I'm a part of the X-men, hanging out, partying and drinking with other Superheroes and then Broly from Dragonball Z comes in and we get into a massive war...and STILL not realize that I'm dreaming...you shouldn't be worried at all because you didn't recognize your old yard. LOL.

Just give it time and be patient. You'll have dreams for the rest of your life. No need to rush.

But i want them now so i can expericance what I want!

Originally Posted by DreamingDragon

But i want them now so i can expericance what I want!

But it's a skill. It takes time. There are some things you just can't rush. If you actually want it, you'll be willing to wait for it. And trust me: It's worth the wait.

Have you tried the Wake-Back-to-Bed method yet?

when i wake up and have LD on my mind when i fall alseep, i havent really tryed it. Usialy my mind loves to drift into other things like Dragons/harry potter lol. It never ever stays on the same thing longer then 2 min.

What have you been trying? Dream journal? Dream signs? Reality checking (if so, how?)? Training your memory for MILD? Any aids? Figured out your REM cycles?