hey WILDers, i want to try WILDing (i am new to the concept), as i have only ever DILDed. I tried WILDing last night and here was what i did (correct me if i did something wrong): i layed in my bed and closed my eyes. i amigined a beautiful beach and tried to keep it in my mind for like 10-20 min. i experienced no "vibrations" or and vividness. i just ended up getting very VERY bored and just rolled to my side and fell asleep. any techninques that could make this better?