Thread: Lucid Sex: starting your dream travels with a bang

-takes a moment to laugh at the inevitable pageviews-

This topic is quite serious, however.

Reading from people's accounts, I've found that people's first experience in lucid dreaming (provided they were "trying" to lucid dream... this won't count if you did it without knowing what it was) results in sex. It seems that once you get your lucid cherry popped, your DCs follow...

However, I'm not sure if this is limited to gender or not. Most would say this is a male sort of thing, but I've been one of the belief that girl's are just as horny as boys; they just hide it a bit better.

This topic is for explanation of why sex is so common in our first lucid dreams, if it is all restricted to guys, and to tell of your own personal experiences.

hi! Correct me if I am wrong, but your entire life is dedicated to finding a mate and spreading your genes around.Because this is the driving force of life (sex) is is deeply coded into your DNA (genes), this would probably be the first thing to surface from your woozy mind. I am a male , and this is stereotypical but true, what is the first thing you think about when you see a member of the opposite sex?(no offense gay & lesbians) yep, sex. so when you awake in the "dreamworld" and see your first DC (if it is a member of the opposite sex) (again, no offense gays and lesbians), your next thought will probably be about sex.

"Is this the real life? Is this just fantasy?"
-Queen

Hey again, AspiR!

My take on it is this. When I was a kid lucid dreaming, I'd be trying a lot. There's nothing hornier than an inexperienced young male (and the experienced old ones can be pretty bad too). There was nothing that would mess up a lucid dream quicker for me as a kid than trying to get some when I hadn't gotten any in reality. Nothing, and I mean nothing, would cause clarity to fade more quickly than the sight of a nekkid lady in an LD. I had an idea of what I wanted to do next, but in reality, I didn't know the mechanics well enough to pull it off in my dreams.

So the catch-22, at least for me, was this: By the time I'd had enough real-life sex to have enough comfort and familiarity with it that I could be comfortable and relaxed about sex in lucid dreaming, the appeal wasn't nearly so great anymore. Perhaps we seek after that which we wish to obtain, and if it's something we already have in ready supply, then we might not seek it so eagerly in our dreams.

Now all that being said, after I left the chat room here last night, I went to sleep around 3:30, and became lucid around 6am (My alarm woke me from it at 6:15). Clarity and control were exceptional and I was experimenting mostly with sticking my head inside solid objects and trying to lessen the sense of "resistance" I get when I do that.. and also turning around and looking behind me (I realized I don't turn around a lot in my LD's, so I wanted to work on that too). Sometime in there I was thinking about one of the tasks for this month, getting a DC to tell me something about myself I didn't know. I asked an attractive lady to tell me something about myself I didn't know, She responded, "I'd do ya". I smiled at her and replied, "Yes, but I already know that". I thought about a quick shag.. and decided to give it a pass. Clarity and control were just too good and I got interested in walking through solid objects around that time anyway. So as I walked through the wall, I heard her saying, "Hey, that's not fair..."

Heartbreaker, even in your dreams.

and nlmgr made an interesting point I suppose. But sex as a needs for reproduction is probably mostly part of the subconscious already, and lucid dreaming obviously involves the conscious.

Originally Posted by AspirationRealized

Heartbreaker, even in your dreams.

and nlmgr made an interesting point I suppose. But sex as a needs for reproduction is probably mostly part of the subconscious already, and lucid dreaming obviously involves the conscious.

as demonstrated ,almost nothing can affect the subcocious, but drugs can affect the concious mind.therefor,in times of shock, the subconcious kicks in.and if you had just become lucid, control of the subcocious the virtualy impossible.

I think everything effects the subconscious mind.

Originally Posted by Who I Am

I think everything effects the subconscious mind.

oops! sorry! nothing can change the concious mind way of thinking, while torture or "reeducation" will cause people to become subbmissive or foster a hatred that has nothing to do with them(for example:the nazis).

It seems that once you get your lucid cherry popped, your DCs follow...

lmao

This is totally true... I used to have loads of LDs when I was in middle school. Except instead of being in wonder of how vivid my surroundings are, I'd just grab the nearest female and start unloading my cargo...

As a female, I can say this is true for us too. However, I rarely have any DCs in my LDs except the ones I summon there. But my dream mind STILL wants sex. I usually retain enough focus though to at least do it somewhere cool, that either isn't possible, or really hard irl. I've had sex on the moon, underwater, on the beach (I've never been to a beach secluded enough irl /sigh), on a rollercoaster, while flying... etc. I just summon my boyfriend and away we go!

Originally Posted by Amelaclya

As a female, I can say this is true for us too. However, I rarely have any DCs in my LDs except the ones I summon there. But my dream mind STILL wants sex. I usually retain enough focus though to at least do it somewhere cool, that either isn't possible, or really hard irl. I've had sex on the moon, underwater, on the beach (I've never been to a beach secluded enough irl /sigh), on a rollercoaster, while flying... etc. I just summon my boyfriend and away we go!

So yeah... you simply justify the sex. I am having sex to test my lucid capabilities >.>

xP

Good to hear an honest woman though.

Originally Posted by AspirationRealized

So yeah... you simply justify the sex. I am having sex to test my lucid capabilities >.>

xP

Good to hear an honest woman though.

No, not so much to justify it. I just don't want to waste my LD with *only* sex, since I can have normal sex in a bed anytime I want.

"hey <insert bf's name here>, *poke* wake up and give me some!"

Originally Posted by AspirationRealized

However, I'm not sure if this is limited to gender or not. Most would say this is a male sort of thing, but I've been one of the belief that girl's are just as horny as boys; they just hide it a bit better.

I have to say...yea that's probably true

Unfortunately I can't reply to the rest of the thread since I haven't gone lucid yet -.-