Don't worry, I randomly try to do violant things in my (lucid) dreams too. It's nothing to worry about. You just like having the freedom to do such things, either that or your mind secretly does. |
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Hey guys, I've been getting LD's pretty frequently now thanks to all the help I found here. Now here's my issue: in my LDs I do lots of violent, mean and evil things. Sometimes I kill DCs for no good reason. I threw a baby off a roof. I threw a bunch of glasses at Ronald Reagan from the top of a building. I'm a sexual deviant. I drive around like a maniac and run over people on purpose. Usually it's a lot of fun at the time, but sometimes when I wake up I feel a little guilty. There's nothing wrong with indulging your dark side when it's only happening in your own private world right?? |
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Don't worry, I randomly try to do violant things in my (lucid) dreams too. It's nothing to worry about. You just like having the freedom to do such things, either that or your mind secretly does. |
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Agreed, you're not evil. What is "evil" anyway? A point of view |
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"It's politics and money, therefore rational arguments are useless." - Moonbeam
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To answer that question I suppose you need to know what is what is the real "you"? Is it the flesh and bone person who walks around and needs to eat and go to the bathroom and stuff? Or is it your consciousness that resides in that meat body? If it's the former, then no, you're not evil. If it's the latter, then I suppose you need to ask why you're doing those terrible things. Do you genuinely enjoy it? Is the only reason you don't do it in real life because you would have to suffer the repercussions? Then yes, you are evil. If it's just because you know you're not really hurting anyone; if you would never do this in real life even if you had the chance to get away with it scott free, then no. |
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In dreams of unspeakable joy—of restored friendships; of revived embraces; of love which said it had never died; of faces that had vanished long ago, yet said with smiling lips that they knew nothing of the grave; of pardons implored, and granted with such bursting floods of love, that I was almost glad I had sinned—thus I passed through this wondrous twilight. —George MacDonald
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Eh. I have my views on this, but you won't like them. Whenever I am conscious, whether in a dream or in life, I abide by the same morals. Otherwise I am contradictory. Why would anyone want to do such things, anyway? |
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Abraxas
Originally Posted by OldSparta
If you're feeling guilty, I think it's safe to say that you're not violent. |
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Good and Evil, right and wrong, they are subjective terms. What is evil to one person is 'right' to another person. Society decides what good and evil is, individuals don't. If the majority believe something then it becomes true, reality is a social construct. Since in your dreams you are society YOU decide what is good and evil even though in the tangible realm society would perceive it as evil. |
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Regardless, all of us hold ourselves to some sort of standard. Some place very rigid restrictions on themselves, while others are lax and really don't care. But everyone has a concept of what they feel is right and wrong. One can choose to ignore it and become numb to the idea, but it's still there. |
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"If there was one thing the lucid dreaming ninja writer could not stand, it was used car salesmen."
It's not evil if it's just fun, meaningless violence. Don't worry, you are no more evil than any Grand Theft Auto player |
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We do all have a moral compass the guides us in our waking life but when we dream it shouldn't have to apply. |
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What one does in Lucid Dreams, or even normal dreams is somewhat of a grey area, as the whole reality of dreams is very skewed and abnormal. Doors are pathways to new areas of a world, as opposed to simply being a partition between two areas. Gravity does not need to apply as long as you don't want it to. And even one's moral compass will not need to apply as the internal reality of dreams brings little to no consequence for supposedly 'evil' acts. However, is the whole construct of good/evil applicable in such a subjective reality? Personally, I think it is very difficult to judge one's dream actions under waking perceptions and moralities. If anything, one must take a different perspective as to why one wants to do violent 'evil' acts in their lucid dreams, as opposed to other things. In the few LDs I've had, I've never killed a DC, nor had sex with one (even when the idea popped into my head). In my LDs, I have different priorities and goals which make me end up exploring my dreamscapes, looking for things or people within my dreams. At the moment, my main aim is to find my subconscious, since I have plenty of things I want to ask or talk about to him/her/it. Hell, in one non-LD in which I came so CLOSE to realising I was dreaming and was about to have hot, steamy dream sex, I came to the wrong conclusion (instead of thinking "I'm dreaming" I thought "What would [girl I know in waking reality] think about this?") and walked away from the scene. Talk about frustrating when I woke up. Personally, I think one's violent tendencies in dreams can be due to frustration or lack of power/influence in waking reality. This may not be evident on the conscious mind, but in dreams where the subconscious mind holds much greater influence, these frustrations may manifest as violent tendecies. If anything, one must look at oneself if confronted with the tendecies in order to at least find out what is causing them. How one deals with it is up to him/her. However, that is my speculation on the matter. To be honest, unless these violent tendecies spill out into waking reality as opposed to remaining within dream reality, then there's little to worry about. |
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Regarding good and evil being merely societal standards: let me ask you, when someone crashes a plane into a building full of innocent people, do you sit there and say, "Interesting! these fellows come from a society where it is not considered wrong to do these things!" |
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In dreams of unspeakable joy—of restored friendships; of revived embraces; of love which said it had never died; of faces that had vanished long ago, yet said with smiling lips that they knew nothing of the grave; of pardons implored, and granted with such bursting floods of love, that I was almost glad I had sinned—thus I passed through this wondrous twilight. —George MacDonald
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I don't think you should hold my opinion to the highest regard but, to kill and do all those things, if you know it's wrong and you are doing it for fun in lucids, it's a reflection on what you wish you could do in real life. People have lucid sex all the time but that doesn't make them sex addicts in real life, it just means they wish they could get laid more often [or just want to please their base selves, anyways]. |
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Abraxas
Originally Posted by OldSparta
wow I didn't know this topic would trigger such deep conversations. in response to some of the questions you guys asked: when I'm in LDs I'm aware that I'm dreaming but I still have a little bit of dream logic controlling me. I dont' feel fully like my waking self, more like a fictionalized version of myself. I'm not a violent or mean person in waking life (except when I'm really drunk....err....maybe these dreams are my subconscious's way of showing me what I'm like when I'm being a drunken asshole since I'm usually blacked out and don't remember any of it)...I like the analogy someone said of Grand Theft Auto. LDing is basically exploring an extremely real virtual reality world, so in a way its kind of like being in a video game and testing it out by blowing shit up and killing people. And I think the reason I do violent things in my dreams is because I know nobody will really be hurt. Now here's a scary thought: what if one day I'm totally convinced I'm dreaming but I'm actually in real life and I go around killing people for fun. Ah!!!! That creeps me out. |
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I have to agree with those that say this is not the correct thing to do. Using the same line of thinking as unseen wombat, I think that "you" is that consciousness. Now I'm aware that in lucid dreams you aren't fully there, but you are surely enough aware to know the difference between right and wrong. I know this because in my last lucid dream I realized that I could do whatever I wanted. I could kill and there would be no consequences. But I instantly thought "this is wrong" and abstained from doing so. Just because you are dreaming does not mean you can run wild and act like a savage animal; sure you can have some fun, but not in ways that are murderous and evil. I personally want to take down a city with an earthquake in a dream because I've never seen something like that. However, I am not going to imagine it with people screaming and bloodied dieing all around me. No, I just want to see the buildings crash down in an empty city. Is this sort a crude desire? Yes, no doubt. However, it harms nobody and is something you can look back to in waking life and say that it was just a dream. |
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Last edited by Yosemine; 01-05-2008 at 04:22 AM.
LOL dont feel guilty its only a dream after all we all have a bad side and Dreams are harmless ways to let out that stress and excitement. As long as you know there wrong to do in the real world there is no harm in exploring your dreams in anyway you like. |
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...ummm... I guess by your standards I myself am evil. I am the latter and I have had some very disturbing lucid and non lucid dreams... I won't go into experiences. But yeah... this thread just gave me another part of my existence that I need to mull over. Great. I hope I won't start having these dreams more often... |
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whoa, what a lot of feedback! I skimmed through most of it, but just wanted to put my two cents in: There's no such thing as evil in dreams. I see lucid dreams like videogames (GTA type games especially). Killing innocent people and running them over in a car doesn't make the gamer evil. That's what lucid dreaming is all about, no moral restraints and no consequenses. Just don't let that stuff follow you into the real world! |
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I don't think you're evil. If I could get lucid more often I would probably be pretty violent too. I think random violence is kind of funny myself. |
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Perhaps the distinction between right and wrong really does lie in the eye of the beholder. (This is a hard thing for me to admit.) But the fact that someone choses to do something that they know is wrong makes them a "slave to sin", still. Just because something doesn't have real world consequences doesn't make it OK. |
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