I feel this is worth reposting in this thread:
 Originally Posted by RaveCrazedDave
A few days ago I constantly said to myself "ok, when I lucid dream, I'll focus hard on my hands, take in every little detail." After a few nights I had a lucid, and I remembered to really focus on the details. I grabbed a nearby dude's face and looked at it intensely, and while I did it I was thinking to myself "this is amazing, it's like I'm awake, don't forget how clear it is." When I woke up I didn't feel like it was clear, but I strictly remember thinking and saying to myself over and over again that it was very very real, so I decided to trust myself.
I think we expect too much from lucid dream memories. For instance, when you remember or think about something that you saw in awaking life there is always a little fuzziness to the image, but in this case, you don't really expect or demand to remember every little crease on someone's skin. I feel we think of dreams that way because we are still so insecure about the subject (the more inexperienced people like me at least). We feel the need to really hammer down that we had a lucid dream and how it felt and looked, and it becomes frustrating when we can't. Of course this is all speculation, but if it has a bit of truth in it, it might mean you should expect not to remember everything you dream, if you also don't remember everything in a waking memory. Do this: think about an event that happened in awaking life and one that happened in a dream. Compare the level of visual detail you remember from one and the other. Of course, you'll remember the girl's beautiful blue eyes (and visualizing them in your head is a whole different story), but you probably wont remember every little eyelash. I get frustrated myself with this, but I'm starting to feel more and more that maybe we're overreacting.
I feel that memory is a big part of it. Practice dream recalling, but instead of only thinking about detailed events involving vague shapes and objects, think about those objects hard. Focus on them, how they felt, behaved or looked. Hell, maybe even make simple drawings. I've never done this myself (at least not yet), but I don't think it is that big of a leap to think this would help a lot. Also, do visualization exercises.
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I don't know if this is relevant to your problem, but I think this observational aspect of it might really help, as well as realizing that it is nothing more (and perhaps nothing less) than an awake memory. You might also want to check out things like image streaming to aid with your affinity to mental images, if you think it might help, though I'm not sure if that's a thing or not.
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