Improving relationship with your Subconsciousness?

So i've been able to talk with my subconscious from some of my first lucid dreams, but because lucid dreams have been so hard to control for me i am always shouting all the questions i have at him (i'm calling it a him because it's a guys voice). I feel like I'm being super rude and commanding and am going to make an effort to improve that relationship. I was wondering if anyone has been in the same situation or a similar one and could point me in the right direction. I'm going to start by dedicating 2 days a week to just talking to him and trying to makes things better. Any ideas on what else i should do?

Forget the past. Just be present.

Well, honestly I wouldn't be too worried about it... in the end you're talking to yourself.

I do think that questions and requests have to be asked firmly and clearly to get the best results from them. I do tend to say thank you afterwards (because I think gratitude is important) but I don't think it really matters.

I've only talked with my subconscious once so far but it was an amazing experience.

I just said out loud "I want to talk with my subconscious" and someone knocked on the door, I answered it and saw the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. She told me she was my subconscious and we had a long conversation. It was like she was my best friend and she also knew what I was thinking at any given moment and she knew all my past memories, hopes, desires, beliefs, etc. When I realised she could read my mind I thought to myself "I hope she doesn't find out about..." something I have felt guilty over for a long time, and she said "don't worry about it I'm fine with it" which came as a huge relief to hear that from my SC. After talking for some time she followed me around in the dream and it was like she amplified my control over the dream. I showed off some abilities and had perfect control of them, everything I was expecting to work, would work first time exactly how I wanted it to.

That sounds awesome, must've been really cool to have seen your subconscious i have only ever talked to mine.
Thx Eonnn for sharing.