^^ Hmm.
I think maybe you're putting way to much weight on memorizing, Silence.
Yes, sometimes we have to spend time and focus to consciously remember something (i.e., facts for a test), and usually that memorizing involves attempting to retain something we're not too interested in retaining (i.e., facts for a test). But I think what you might be overlooking is that remembering is almost always done pretty much automatically; our brains are incredibly effective at storing information all by themselves, without any conscious input... if it matters, we will very likely remember it; if it matters a lot (like a LD), we will very likely remember it in excellent detail -- especially if the thing we are remembering is extremely unusual (like a dream).
I think this might explain why I didn't use the word "memorize" pretty much anywhere on this this thread. To me, in the context of LD'ing, memorizing really isn't an issue at all, because my mind is fully capable of retaining the stuff I'm experiencing just fine on its own -- just as it does in waking-life, when I'm consciously experiencing an interesting, unusual, or particularly exciting moment. If we were required to actually memorize every important conscious event we encounter, I think a lot of us would have very little pasts to which to refer!
So we're probably talking about two different things here: I am discussing the presence of memory in dreams, and that presence being more than enough to create conscious memories of LD's that are every bit as clear as waking-life memories, if not more so, and you are discussing manually committing to memory the things that occur in a LD.
For me this sort of manual commitment to memory -- memorizing -- certainly does come up now and then (i.e., remembering lines of text, specific faces on DC's, or what exactly that girl at the bar was saying), and I will need to make an effort to remember them, using whatever conscious trick might be necessary, as I think I mentioned above. And yes, I will occasionally wake myself up if some complex detail occurs that I know I have to write down to accurately remember, but the vast majority of my LD content gets remembered just like any important conscious event: automatically.
All that said, at the risk of basically repeating what I just said, I noticed a couple of bits in your post that encouraged response:
 Originally Posted by Silence11
You are correct, I hadn’t considered this before when I made my initial statement. I’ll agree that the processes that govern memory and its components should work exactly the same, regardless of the waking or dream state, should one attain full lucidity. That being said…
Isn't that enough?
You very nicely summarized the role of memory in a LD; why complicate its presence? But still...
If you are memorizing it lucidly, it will be no more skewed than any other memory generated during waking-life consciousness.
Ah, but is it really?
Yes, I think it is; really.
We are just as capable of skewing waking-life events as we are LD-life events. In fact, given their unusual nature, I wonder if dreams are actually easier to remember without embellishment than waking-life events.
Agreed, for the most part. While all those variables all factor in when storing and retrieving a memory, things like time, frequency, awareness and, therefore, the circumstances that englobe the experience itself, all four must also be considered. Especially when referring to awareness and its link with incoming stimuli, as I feel the need to point out a difference with both when in a dream and awake. But more on that below.
All four of those things must be considered when memorizing, and not remembering in general, I think. Again, intentionally memorizing a LD is not generally necessary (hopefully I won't repeat that too many more times...)
Also, a quick note: when you speak of remembering, I don’t know if you mean it as in recalling, memorizing, or both. Both words can be used interchangeably which is why I prefer to separate the terms and ditch remembering altogether. So, an apology as this relatively short use of words would most likely cause me to misunderstand some of what you typed up to here, and what follows.
Here, again, is where I did indeed misunderstand you. To me, memorizing is very different from recall, because recall is what you do after you've memorized (or naturally remembered). This is especially true upon waking from a NLD: the thing you are doing as you struggle to retain a fading NLD is the memorizing part, and recall is what you're rewarded with after you've successfully memorized the dream. So recall is a noun first (the stored memory, thanks to your memorizing the NLD), and doesn't become a verb until later when you remember/recall the dream that has already been stored in memory. In a literal sense, when initially remembering/memorizing a NLD, you are "calling" it back to consciousness in the hopes of filing it away, and recall comes later, when you are calling the stored dream up again. [Note that I am intentionally using "NLD's" here, because LD's -- being conscious events -- don't require the same effort to be remembered upon waking.]
... that all sounded a lot better in my head, but I've no time to rewrite...
And, of course, all this skewing occurs after we are awake, and not during the dream!
This is where I wanted to get at, and while I admit everything you say makes sense and is true, I can’t help but feel a little anxious with that last statement. The reason is, I believe, because several of the variables at play are being left out of the equation: time, frequency, awareness, and incoming stimuli.
I think, from the perspective of your functional memory (the part of your mind that does remembering without much, if any, conscious input... please forgive if I'm using the wrong term), that those variables really don't matter; if a conscious event is important, it will be stored, sometimes whether you like it or not (i.e., nightmares). You really do not need to make an effort to memorize a LD, especially if the event of its occurrence is important to you (which it generally is); your mind will do the heavy lifting for you, memory-wise.
With awareness, it’s important to notice that, although one can have access to memory in a dream exactly as in waking consciousness, that same awareness can dissipate as fast as it originated, hindering one’s access to memory by default.
Yes it can, but if self-awareness fades, so does lucidity, bringing you back to trying to remember a NLD, which is not a waking-life-consciousness event (meaning, also, that memorization during the dream is rendered impossible anyway).
Just as a sort of aside, that same dissipation of awareness happens in waking-life, pretty much all the time... and yet our minds are chock-full of memories!
So, there’s definitely some variables that factor in here as well, like time, experience, and sensory input provided by the dream. So, while I could access memory to remember that I have a sleeping body (or that I'm asleep) and, in this manner, achieve a fully lucid state, I still need to put forth with how long the dream is, time in which one could get distracted and loose self-awareness, exactly as it happens in wakefulness. The only difference is, the sensory input we receive from a dream, especially when lucid, differs from that of the waking world.
Again, all this has to do with memorizing, and not simply storing conscious memories naturally. And still again, that differing sensory input can be a plus for remembering a LD, because it is so unusual.
The stories we live out in our dreams are almost always unlike any waking life experience. Think about it, we can live and relive any fantasy we so desire, embark on adventures we can only “dream of” when awake, accomplish things only limited by our imagination, and transcend the experience altogether. Even the most mundane of things appear magical the first time we lucidly set foot on dreamland. It’s like living in a state of almost uninterrupted euphoria. All these number of stimuli can distract the dreamer from self-awareness and thus, from access to memory.
That all sounds pretty memorable to me! 
Now look at waking life as we know it, and, although life is filled with numerous instances that can work against awareness and memory, they are “nothing” compared to what a dream has to offer. Particularly when the most surreal and unique of events occur leaps and bounds more frequently in dreams
.
...Still more things that make LD's easily remembered, I think...
Waking-life is filled with infinite instances that go unremembered, mostly because they have nothing to do with you; in a dream, however, everything has something to do with you because, well, dreams are You.
So instances in a dream are both far more finite (even when it doesn't seem so, in the dream) and directly relevant to you, meaning, I think, that a few lucid moments in even the most surreal or complex of dreams might be more easily remembered than a few moments in waking-life.
So, provided with the example above, perhaps we find ourselves at the bar and engage in conversation with one of the pretty girls sitting nearby. We soon realize, to our amazement, that what’s being conveyed throughout the conversation is insightful and beneficial to us, so we wish to memorize such singular occasion.
Now there, I agree, is a time where memorizing would come into play... and perhaps nicely illustrates the two different things we're talking about. At the risk of more repetition:
Yes, if I were to decide that something the girl was telling me mattered, I would make every effort to remember her words as best I could (I might even immediately wake up and write it down, with the hope of returning to the dream though DEILD/WILD). But I would be doing that memorizing in the context of a moment that is already being automatically stored, globally, in my memory as well, regardless of my intent. In fact, my effort to remember the girl's words would probably strengthen my overall memory of the moment, simply because I am so focused on it. So in this case both memorizing and forming a general memory of the moment would be occurring simultaneously, if perhaps independently.
However we choose to do so is nonimportant (it really is, but that's something for another time). But now comes the challenge, after we feel we’re done with the activity. Should we intentionally wake up from the dream, or should it be the last incident of the night, our memory of it would have to be subject to the variables of time, frequency, how well we memorized the information, and whether it was tampered in any way, shape or form. On the other hand, should the dream continue, all previous factors continue to play, plus our ability to deal with incoming stimuli. So, perhaps the bar ripples out of existence and I decide to fly to the nearest planet, and maybe I find a dragon to slay by a castle nearby, and the dream continues for however long it cares to drag on. Then, we could say, the skewing occurs not only when awake, but also while we sleep.
All true, but it again relates to memorizing, and not the natural memory of the dream. And yes, in either case, distance from the event can lead to skewing -- even if we're still asleep (but also still lucid) -- so that would certainly need to be dealt with.
I’m most definitely curious and will look at both threads right away, thanks for the suggestions!
Thanks! Hopefully I say things a bit more clearly there.
tl;dr: I think maybe you're putting way to much weight on memorizing, Silence. LD's, like any other important conscious event, can be remembered without intentionally, manually, memorizing them.
|
|
Bookmarks