hello everyone welcome to my post i need your help please read and reply

i am new to lucid dreaming i spent 3 months of practice then had my first lucid dream (DILD) and after 5 days my second dild .so i had two lucid dreams first one was about 10 minutes long and second was approx 5 minutes .both were not fully contolled but i did dream control exercises and then fly.

i saw a video before i started lucid dreaming it says we can do anything in a lucid dream including sex and yes i started lucid dreaming to be able to do sex with hot celebrities because that way i am not harming anyone and its my own subconscious so no shame telling you this . when after trying so hard and doing that much hard work i came to know the fact that dream sex is not easy (i read every article about lucid dreaming) most people advice not to do sex in first lucid dreams so in my only two lucid dreams i didn't even thought about sex. but now i want to ask you guys some questions

1)it is realy bad to know that sex in dreams is not that easy when i done that much work only for that as i am not interested in flying around so what are your tips considering my story .what should i do and what you have done if you were me?

2)lots of people who share their stories about having lucid sex tell that they had sex and woke up with ejaculation and this is realy nasty i don't want that to happen so if i do oral sex and kissing undressing part (no fucking) will i ejaculate? did you guys done anything as such? pls share your experiance.

3)i never succeeded in WILD do you have any tip to simplify WILD ?

4) how to have more lucid dreams so that i can have at least one dream per night?

thank you for your help