I joined this site over three years ago, and when I first joined, I was really pumped and excited. I was motivated and I posted and answered and participated in stuff, I joined the DV Academy when it first started, took multiple classes. At one point, I had pretty good recall, from like 2-6 dreams a night, everything was good. Except lucid dreaming. I tried DILD and MILD over months, first DILD and then MILD. But I always seemed to fail at that. I don't really feel all that aware or in control in my dreams. I sometimes just see it in 3rd person. The few times I became lucid the dream fell apart and ended pretty quickly. I just don't know what to do to become lucid. I eventually lost all my motivation, my recall slipped, and I became inactive. I have come back a few times, but never for long, I basically gave up by that point. So... any advice or tips or good posts to look at?