Thread: Some lucid dream sex stories

Yeah. but i did have a sex dream once.... It was good...i guess? Lol i don't remember much.

I do admit however, dreams can have physiological effects on your self... If you can cure fears of things, it can sure enough create them.

Hi redstockings

You bring up a very interesting discussion here, and would like to share my view on it as well, as I hope you will want to continue the discussion.

"But in a way, I suppose you are raping a part of your own psyche when you do that. If so, then I suppose you deserve that. as the saying goes, "you had it coming to you"..."

Refering to LaBerge's EWLD, you underline an important question. The moral effects in your waking life, followed by the actions in your dreams.

Just like it's being implemented already, some athlete coaches are already training their athletes in lucid dreaming, since research shows that athlethes who practiced their sports in their dreams, had an increased performance in their waking state.

Some cognitive therapists have already begun teaching clients lucid dreaming, in an effort to resolve waking life fears, and with great success.

This further proves the point, that dreamstate actions has an impact on waking life. However, I cannot say I agree with your reasoning.

First off, the disturbing part of rape, is that it's an unwanted action forced upon another individual, and that is the problem in itself. Inside a dream, essentially, you're forcing sex onto yourself, and I think the very difference between being in the "worry-zone", as they call it, and the "natural dreamer" zone, is the intent (though also the "worry-zone will soon be explained).

People here for example, I assume sex, that was their goal, and in order to achieve that, they had to take the action of rape, the pathway for that would be: Sex(intent) -> Rape(action). This is very different from going in with the intent of rape, and even less the intent of practicing rape infor a real life event.

Also, let us not forget, that a lot of people fantisize about rape (about 50% of women do, if my recall is correct) and as disturbing as that may sound to you, we have to look at why.

Fantisizing about rape is not actually fantisizing about the horrid experience that it truly is, it's the fantasy of being completely dominated and forced into a submissive mode, which is a very attractive thing for many people. And the reason they can fantisize about this, is because they never experienced rape, and does not know its true horrors. That is not to dismiss it though, as any fantasy is perfectly legitimate and should be embraced as long as it is in terms with your partner, I'm simply explaining why something so disturbing to you, may be attractive to others, and why I also believe that raping, and being raped in a dream, does not have to be a disturbing matter at all.

I hope this makes sense, this is has been written with me being awake for 24 hours heh.

@WrOx..... nice explanation, i should have went a more mature approach like you

Without going into much detail.. my erm.. goods got.... bitten off then used as an erm... toy, by a former ex
At first it was kinda hot.. Until i realised the implications that i could never have sex ever again lol was the most horrific experience of my life
We made an appointment at the hospital. Then, as you do when your manhood gets bitten off and your in extreme pain, you forget to go by the next day it was too late. I woke up in bed almost crying.

Edit: to note i was lucid at first, then non-lucid the second i had realised the horrifications that ***** had done to me

Originally Posted by ShadowOfSelf

Without going into much detail.. my erm.. goods got.... bitten off then used as an erm... toy, by a former ex
At first it was kinda hot.. Until i realised the implications that i could never have sex ever again lol was the most horrific experience of my life
We made an appointment at the hospital. Then, as you do when your manhood gets bitten off and your in extreme pain, you forget to go by the next day it was too late. I woke up in bed almost crying.

Edit: to note i was lucid at first, then non-lucid the second i had realised the horrifications that ***** had done to me

Lol. At the first line I assumed you were talking about a dream, then the second line led me to believe it actually happened . Then I read the edit and am reassured it was actually a dream.

Don't you know you can grow it back in a dream? Heck you can grow anything you want at whatever size you want it .

Originally Posted by ShadowOfSelf

Without going into much detail.. my erm.. goods got.... bitten off then used as an erm... toy, by a former ex
At first it was kinda hot.. Until i realised the implications that i could never have sex ever again lol was the most horrific experience of my life
We made an appointment at the hospital. Then, as you do when your manhood gets bitten off and your in extreme pain, you forget to go by the next day it was too late. I woke up in bed almost crying.

Edit: to note i was lucid at first, then non-lucid the second i had realised the horrifications that ***** had done to me

Made my day hahahahhaha, :p

Yeah, when i was a kid: (younger than 11years old)
i had this lucid dream, so i just went to the girl i liked, removed clothing and started having sex, right in the middle of no where

also, this might sounds weird, but it happened, oh well. I had this LD in which i just showed my thing in front of my younger sister
EEEWWWW, screw that T_T
......well, i said it.....

dont judge me :X

By the way, i cant freaking wait to have LDs where i can make all my fantasies about my fetishes come true (You can lol here as much as you want, XD) , ohmygosh-ohmygosh-ohmygosh DDD
XD

something else, i just got curious after reading above, usually the idea of LD is taking control over the dream, could it be harder to get raped if you wanted it to happen since it is not something you do but instead someone else's behavior? I just thought it was something interesting to know, haha

I've never had sex in a lucid dream. Only in regular dreams where I have no control.

So far all the time when I had sex in the non-lucid dreams, my dream character actually didn't want to do it.

Originally Posted by Howlgram

Yeah, when i was a kid: (younger than 11years old)
i had this lucid dream, so i just went to the girl i liked, removed clothing and started having sex, right in the middle of no where

also, this might sounds weird, but it happened, oh well. I had this LD in which i just showed my thing in front of my younger sister
EEEWWWW, screw that T_T
......well, i said it.....

dont judge me :X

By the way, i cant freaking wait to have LDs where i can make all my fantasies about my fetishes come true (You can lol here as much as you want, XD) , ohmygosh-ohmygosh-ohmygosh DDD
XD

something else, i just got curious after reading above, usually the idea of LD is taking control over the dream, could it be harder to get raped if you wanted it to happen since it is not something you do but instead someone else's behavior? I just thought it was something interesting to know, haha

>going to ask what type of fetishes
>look at your profile pic
>my little pony fury
oh my... is this it? orrrr is there something else?

^ partially? lol, i do like rule 34, but it is not what i have in mind, lol

Originally Posted by Howlgram

^ partially? lol, i do like rule 34, but it is not what i have in mind, lol

Lolol ok, what do u have in mind then o_o..... i might tell you mine... MIGHT!

hahahaha, okay, I tell but you dont hesitate to do the same thing XD because anyway, why wouldnt you ?

Ok, so it is not a big deal, i just fantasize with this fictional and furry characters, not always in a sexual way, but oh well
They are just so goddamn cute and the best thing is that i can give them the perfect personality xP
here, have a pic
it is SFW btw

i2.photobucket [DOT] com/albums/y11/Shugox1/florawallpaper.png
>STUPID 7 DAYS RULE IS STUPID, doesnt let me put links, oh well, just replace the "[DOT]"

That is like, my fetish, lol. I also like Rule 34 about My Little Pony, hahaha, but not as much as what i already said.
And not "fetish" but im kinky about manysome things,
like i think it would be damn fun/interesting dreaming about me being a lesbian girl, ROFL, how ridiculous XD i also like the idea of being there like in real life, and when i watch some girl im really attracted to, i can just do as i want, and just go touch her as i want no matter if it is in plain public, and have sex out of nowhere, hahahaha. like when you watch a girl irl with real good boobies and you just want to touch them but you cant because it is real life XD
>im so telling everything in here XD this is so much fun

Originally Posted by Ellusiion

In most of mine every DC i ask says no. Sometimes i have to force it which makes them mad. Nonetheless, when the job gets done it feels amazing, and for some reason i shoot about half a gallon.

Wow. I really did "laugh out loud" for several moments after reading that you sometimes have to rape your dream characters lol...
thats seriously amusing. Its just a reflection of how you expect to be treated by your characters. Expect them with all your heart to desire you.. and they will... and just may end up raping you lol..

Now rape is no laughing matter obviously, but this is a dream, so I'm sure it would be overlooked by a jury of 12

Originally Posted by atkins513

Wow. I really did "laugh out loud" for several moments after reading that you sometimes have to rape your dream characters lol...
thats seriously amusing. Its just a reflection of how you expect to be treated by your characters. Expect them with all your heart to desire you.. and they will... and just may end up raping you lol..

Now rape is no laughing matter obviously, but this is a dream, so I'm sure it would be overlooked by a jury of 12

Well, imo if you know it is a dream and you know they wont actually be suffering, i just dont see it that wrong.
When i have dreamed about this, i guess my side of the mind that controls desires is so powerful that everything just goes as i wish, no need to rape xD
His mind i guess is being just more realistic, of what it thinks that would happen when he asks them.

I ALWAYS try to have sex in my ld. its gotten to the point where Im getting frustrated with myself for only caring about that. lol its awesome though because I can think my boyfriend into the dream and usually do the deed with him but almost every time we get interrupted which is seriously getting on my nerves too. like the randomest shit too, ill be just about to have sex and someone will walk through the door with a backpack or something and say they need to drop it off

Originally Posted by sexylexy

I ALWAYS try to have sex in my ld. its gotten to the point where Im getting frustrated with myself for only caring about that. lol its awesome though because I can think my boyfriend into the dream and usually do the deed with him but almost every time we get interrupted which is seriously getting on my nerves too. like the randomest shit too, ill be just about to have sex and someone will walk through the door with a backpack or something and say they need to drop it off

Why would you use precious dream time to have sex with your boyfriend?

Originally Posted by redstockings

dreamguy1515:

1) you said: "not sure if trolling"... I am not trolling, I've posted in this forum numerous times. you apparently joined in April 2011. so I have been around longer than you. If I wanted to be condescending, I'd suggest that you were the troll because you're the newbie. but I won't do that, because I believe all of us who LD should have a place to post here.

2) you said: "or just stupid"...like I said, unlike you, I will not be condescending. there is no place for that on this forum. I don't know you personally, but I find that truly intelligent people don't resort to calling other people they disagree with "stupid".

This is probably in reference to the Futurama Fry meme. It is still disrespectful, but hopefully by explaining it a little there will be less hard feelings since it could be an attempt at humor, though he went about it poorly if it was. In any case people should try to be mature when responding to others.

As for rape in dreams, I find it acceptable, it is a victimless crime. As you said, it is like raping yourself, but I do not even agree with that. Can I rape myself without it being consentual? I do not believe that dc's are segments of my conciousness, or part of a whole, and by effecting them I effect myself. In a lucid dream, I am concious as in real life, and my thoughts and such are collected in my dream self, everything else is images formed from my conciousness, reacting to my expectations. You say dreams stay with us, but to what extent? You have had thousands of dreams in your life, how many could you remember? I can remember a great deal, but needless to say the majority have left my memory. Some dreams may make an impact on us, however I do not think that they will change who you are, and certianly shouldn't transform someone immoral from dream actions. The only risk I can see is emotional damage from feeling guilty of your dream actions, but if you realize that you are only acting out your fantasies in your mind, one should not feel guilty.

Furthermore, in many dreams the line between rape and sex blur, I will give an example. In one of my lucids, I was looking for my crush. I travelled all around the school looking for her, when I finally found her. When I was close to her, she ran. I chased after and grabbed her leg, I had spent an entire dream on this and did not want to waste it (sorry if this was a little graphic but I cannot change my dream to make it more reader friendly). I prepared to have sex then, but she did not struggle, she did not complain, and seemed completely fine with it. I believe my "searching and chasing" mentality I had during the dream made me expect her to run. When dreams find an objective, your mind often tries to keep with that same goal for the dream, this is the reason I can never shake a pursuer in my non-lucids, and in this mentality I wouldn't have ever succeded in catching her if I did not do what I did. Since emotions control DC's to an extent, she ran. When I caught her, the chase was off, and my emotions were replaced with sexual ones, and she immediantly became sexual herself.

Is that rape? I forced her into it, but the only reason she resisted was because I expected her to. She was not disgusted or hurt, or emotionally harmed, for her to genuinly feel like that, I would have to feel like that.

Acting out rape in a dream does not seem immoral to me, I would be completely fine in a room with someone who had done it. All they did was act out a fantasy, not to hurt a person, but most likely to feel dominant and in control, and people have every right to be in control of their mind.

Originally Posted by dreamguy1515

@XeL: Exactly, glad you see my point. Oh is that :] a smile at me? lol

No. I was quoting redstockings. I didn't even see your post.

anyway to get back on topic, in many of my dreams sex did not feel like anything, but it has improved as my control has. My last few dreams I did not wake up right away, and was able to find a suitable partner, so I am making progress, when I am able to get lucid that is.

Heyy the LD i had the other night was i was at my school in my 1st period 5th grade room and i looked out the window and saw this bigass plane on fire crashing to the ground,its mass caused brutal shaking and i realized i was dreaming and decided to do sumin awesome so i got all the ppl in the room and said blah blah huge fukin plane blahh FOLLOW ME!!and everyone started runnin wid me to the back exit and me and som guy let everyone out and the whole time i was screamin GET THE FUKK OUTTA HERE GOO GOOOO GOOOOOO!!!and i saved everyone,i know it aint bout sex but i got plenty of those,ill share if u want cuz i got sum kick ass LD stories

Once when i was in LD i was out in my yard and there was a shit load of bitches there for some reason,but there was one that wore a black silky dress with black higheels on and i tried fukin other ppl but they wouldnt say yes so i went ovr to the girl in black tht had blonde short hair with strawberry red lipstick and i grabbed her pussy and she just smiled so i lifted up her dress and stuck my dik out finished and felt awesome until i woke up lol!!!

I remember one sex LD I had where the emotions it gave me were very weird. Instead of having sex to feel good it seemed like I was seeking it out to feel connected with someone, as if I wanted to fall in love with my DC in a way. Anyways I woke up from the sex LD feeling very deeply loved and accepted by myself, like I lost most of my insecurities for a while. It's a very hard feeling to describe, but I loved it.

Sorry i had to laugh at that "turned into my pillow" bit ! XD

Originally Posted by Ermac

I was having sex with a girl behind a house, right before i was about to insert my penis into her vagina she turned into my pillow that i sleep on
I had another dream were i have gotten a blowjob from 3 girls at a party, lol

Ok, for me all i got to do if i find someone attractive and actually eyeing me, they really don't have to say much lol. But forcing isn't on my agenda, if a DC did do that i would kick his arse

It seems some time has passed since the topic was made but no matter I will post and respond because I find it interesting. Regarding rape and all that, I actually do something different which I call: Non Coercion.

Is this because of some moral standards? No actually no, at least not at the time I started. In fact though not rape knowing it was a dream more or less I had a dream with an ex, we were both in the upper part of my 2 storied bed and I kissed her by surprise, she slapped me, I got turned on by the slap and kissed her again, she slapped me harder and finally when I kissed her again she returned the kiss and was willingly.

If you haven't figured by now I am a one of the few males that like to be sub in bed. This then cause a hard situation for me: How do I get to have the sex I want, if I need to not only convince people but have them assault me?

Simple answer is: Cause it to happen, it is your dream.

A story:

I was in a lucid dream and wanted to have sex, there was no one there, only me and a forest. I did some handsigns with the intention of causing a warrior women to take me. I then just proceeded to continue walking in the forest knowing that they had to show up and they did. Before I could even realize I was surrounded by tribal women, they were mounted in horses, some of them on foot, one of them was perhaps one of the most beautiful women I have seen in my life: Long blonde hair, deep green eyes looking at me, some of these women were dark skinned. I was pinned to the ground and mounted. I don't remember if I ended up with the blonde or a dark skinned girl pinned me to the ground and mounted me, I think it was both, I have foggy memories of that dream.

The second dream I was there in a city and I wanted another sexual experience knowing it was a dream. I made some handsigns with the intention of having a Valkyrie drop and rape me and this is what just happened. Within seconds dropped from the sky a figure and it was a beautiful femenine figure: big breasts, tall, blonde with majestic long hair, a sword and a shield, blue eyes and wings. She was barely dressed though looked intimidating with visible abs. She had a very stern face as well, she walked towards me slowly saying that I had the obligation of staying with her and she would watch over me because I either had created or could create a lot of havoc. She rushed towards me and took me flying at great speed then threw me into the ground in a field. She then rushed towards me flying low as soon as I stood up, hitting me with her shield which pinned me into the ground and ripped my clothes and then mounted me and kissed me fiercely, it was a very intense sex experience perhaps the most intense one in my life, it was very amazing.

However something I want to share with you: It is your dream, if you don't want to convince DC's why not just place yourself in the desired events? I call it No Coercion because you don't have to force anyone, it just happens.

Oh my god, this whole thread... lmao... I have had sex in dreams a couple times but I don't remember it being anything worth writing home about. I mean in the dream it was pretty great but compared to some of the stories in here well I guess I'd just look unremarkable It was a dream goal of mine but not something I ever dwelled on or really put a lot of thought into.

I'm a little surprised about the disagreement over dream rape though. I've never done that but my personal feeling about it is that it's just a dream and there are no rules. I wouldn't try to summon Satan, shoot at random people, kill someone who started a fistfight with me, steal a car, or cause a head on collision in real life but in a dream I would and I have with the exception of summoning Satan... That's actually kind of a cool idea, but I digress. I noticed the comparison with video games and such but actually I think it's the same. A lucid dream is basically nothing but a real-feeling video game as far as I'm concerned, a virtual reality headgear that doesn't waste time during the day.

I tend to agree with the people who say it's perfectly fine to act out a fantasy in a dream. No, real life rape is definitely not something to joke about but this isn't hurting anyone including yourself. I could just as easily say that the DC wasn't being raped at all but was roleplaying for the enjoyment of the dreamer and the DC, could you tell the difference? I realize some people are more sensitive of that sort of topic but I don't think it's a subject you can throw a blanket over, maybe just a "caution" sign. Some people in real life love to consensually act out some pretty crazy stuff, and the difference is that in a dream when you think about it there's really only one person who needs to give consent -- the dreamer who is basically having sex with his or her imagination. I wouldn't call it rape if someone was thinking about sex with Megan Fox while whacking it.

I dunno, just my two cents because that particular discussion grabbed my attention more than anything. I think it kind of defeats the purpose of lucid dreaming if you constrain yourself with ethics, morals, and laws of the waking world. Not that I'm saying everyone should dream rape people and cause general mayhem even if they feel wrong about it. Yummy philosophy.