Thread: dream-gasms

So I'm new to the site but I've always wanted to discuss my dreams publically. My friends just wouldn't understand. I've been lucid dreaming since I was little, lucky I guess. Had many LD experiences on my own but there's one thing I can't figure out....

One of my favorite things to do while LDing is have sex, I'll admit it as a girl in college. I've had lesbian dreams, dreams where I have a penis, normal sex dreams etc. But for some reason, every time I start having sex while LDing, I can feel the dream start fading away as I'm waking up. I'm guessing this is because I get excited. So I have to hurry up to finish before the dream is gone. I start peaking and within 5 seconds I wake up to a face-flushing, body-pulsing orgasm. Yup, no lies. And this happens probably once a week as long as I have time to sleep in. Does anyone else experience this? It's awesome but I can't tell this to ANYONE in real life teehee

that is a normal thing, consider yourself healthy

and there`s a book on that, a female psychologist gathered around other women`s errotic dreams

it`s called My Secret Garden is/was a bestseller

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/My_Secret_Garden

here`s the book, uploaded online, if you are interested only in that

Nancy Friday - My Secret Garden (Women'S Sexual Fantasies)


if you are not 18, pls just don`t click on it

haha I'm 20! Thank you, I usually hate reading but this sounds interesting. I've never been concerned about my erotic dreams, I think they're awesome. I just wonder if anyone else experiences them as often as I do. I've only really told 2 of my best girlfriends and they never have. One suggested I fingered myself in my sleep...she doesn't understand that orgasms are mental and can occur without physical stimulation. But anyway, thanks again!

that book contains hundreds of womens errotic dreams, it`s common

lot of women don`t talk about it, in fear of labeled as nutcase sluts

just ask your girlfriends, whom you trust and you might have a surprise or two

it`s official by the way, this dreamgasm thing

Lucid Dreaming Sex: Exploring The Erotic Side of Lucid Dreams

Lucid Dreaming: Sexual Lucid Dreaming!


most women don`t have it if they are frustrated and emotionally f*cked up, you know there are lots of women having bad jobs, taking prozac, pretending to be someone else

but that f*cks up other areas of their life too

So true! Yeah I've done research on it but I've found only a small percentage of women are able to actually reach orgasm from dreams. My friends were like, "whaaat are you talking about!" But they're all really jealous. Guess I'm an undercover nutcase slut

Originally Posted by UcfGirl

So true! Yeah I've done research on it but I've found only a small percentage of women are able to actually reach orgasm from dreams. My friends were like, "whaaat are you talking about!" But they're all really jealous. Guess I'm an undercover nutcase slut

no you are not

there are a lots of wierd women out there and sometimes they make me feel strange

I can ensure you that, my intuition in the offline world is far superior than any male should have been allowed to have

no, not creepy, I get that when gay man hit on me, that`s different, your scared and disgusted, but you don`t want to make a scene, so you just stfu, freeze your face and walk away as best you can

Originally Posted by UcfGirl

hmm interesting...the fear factor does make sense because last year I never told anyone about these dreams, but this year I told two girlfriends and one guy I was talking to who actually said it turned him on that I could do that. Since I told him, the awkward DCs staring at me stopped appearing as often.

About the dream sharing, it is actually possible? That sounds like something out of inception. You mean like two people can be having the same dream at the same time? You have to tell me more.

And lastly I wish I could find a guy who was as interested in the workings of human mind as I am, but unfortunately I'm limited to UCF fraternity boys for now who aren't exactly intellectually stimulating lol

Lol. quoted this from the topic that got locked.

Honestly,... I loved the movie Inception, but I started kicking myself in the ass knowing that the movie was going to end up doing the same thing that movies always do: take certain ideas and publicly discredit them. (Its a psychology thing. Of course dream sharing is going to seem like a 'fun movie concept' and nothing more after someone decides to build a movie around it. =P)

And its not something you need a weird... CIA simulation device to do... O.o!

...but this is more of a topic for the Inner Sanctum forum, and forums of that nature, surrounding more psychic-related stuff.

There are a few people here on this site who claim they can do it. Of course, since I DID just get back to this site, I don't know anyone off-hand. Still, this is a goal for me none-the-less.

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(After edit

Also forgot to mention the Beyond Dreaming forum, which talks about exactly this!
http://www.dreamviews.com/f19/

Yeah, I've had this happen before too. Funny thing is, the most intense one was one in which I didn't even have sex...It was more akin to a profound drug experience, the only difference being that I was dreaming, and alongside a female...which makes me think that was what caused it? I have no idea though, but I woke up with my entire body pulsing from it--pretty much the greatest feeling of all time.

haha no way!! I've honestly had dreams equivalent to a profound psychadelic drug experience after I esperimented with a couple of drugs last year but never had an orgasm from it. Maybe you just got an overwhelming feeling of pure nirvana from this dream and that is what triggered the orgasm. are you a guy or a girl? Because I feel bad for guys who have wet dreams since girls don't have a mess to clean up hahaa even though I still wake up really wet

Originally Posted by UcfGirl

haha no way!! I've honestly had dreams equivalent to a profound psychadelic drug experience after I esperimented with a couple of drugs last year but never had an orgasm from it. Maybe you just got an overwhelming feeling of pure nirvana from this dream and that is what triggered the orgasm. are you a guy or a girl? Because I feel bad for guys who have wet dreams since girls don't have a mess to clean up hahaa even though I still wake up really wet

the study i read they actually measured the skin tissue of that area to see if there was any blood flow or if it got wet. they had the female who was a everyday lucid dreamer signal to them through eye movements by looking left and right 3 times when she had her orgasm so they knew when the reading was accurate. strangely enough, the machine showed that women have no physical response down there in real life even though they experience a full orgasm in their dream. Men on the other hand do...make a mess

Hello and great name btw, im also a cage fighter. I remember reading about a study done on that in the "Exploring the world of lucid dreaming" book it was only was 1 study of many in that book, it looks like that the 'my secret garden' books is more specific.

Originally Posted by Bossalinni

Hello and great name btw, im also a cage fighter.

lol ucf = university of central florida but thats cool

Originally Posted by UcfGirl

lol ucf = university of central florida but thats cool

yea i read it wrong, mb

Nooo way that's not true!! Maybe for that one girl but I have a dream-induced orgasm once a week and I ALWAYS wake up with pulsing muscles and I'm veery wet. Just like a real orgasm. Trust me, I can feel it if I put my hand on it when I wake up and I really get the same muscle spasms. I'm just saying women don't like ejaculate unless they're squirters. Sorry if that's tmi..just being honest

Wow. I'm jealous.

That's what I'm practicing atm.
I'm have some progress but have not got it yet.
I do a detailled report after my study is finished.

Originally Posted by UcfGirl

Nooo way that's not true!! Maybe for that one girl but I have a dream-induced orgasm once a week and I ALWAYS wake up with pulsing muscles and I'm veery wet. Just like a real orgasm. Trust me, I can feel it if I put my hand on it when I wake up and I really get the same muscle spasms. I'm just saying women don't like ejaculate unless they're squirters. Sorry if that's tmi..just being honest

yea been alil while sense i read it so i could be alil off, also in the study the subjects stayed sleeping the whole time, not sure if that matters

Originally Posted by Bossalinni

yea been alil while sense i read it so i could be alil off, also in the study the subjects stayed sleeping the whole time, not sure if that matters

YES big difference. Because if I reach orgasm from my dream, it wakes me up because I'm actually having a physical orgasm. I've never just felt an orgasm in my dream and not woken up. Mine are real.

Try abstaining for a while... should help.

Originally Posted by Darkmatters

Try abstaining for a while... should help.

women are not man

a woman can take 50 guys per day without a problem and they get hornier with sex, you touch them, they want to be kissed, you kiss them, and so on

if they don`t tell you that ... well that`s another problem

by the way, did you ever wonder how people came up with the nymphs???

ummmm

no bad intentions on my behalf, ok?

Originally Posted by hpnfreak

women are not man

a woman can take 50 guys per day without a problem and they get hornier with sex, you touch them, they want to be kissed, you kiss them, and so on

if they don`t tell you that ... well that`s another problem

by the way, did you ever wonder how people came up with the nymphs???

ummmm

no bad intentions on my behalf, ok?

uhm...

Originally Posted by hpnfreak

women are not man

a woman can take 50 guys per day without a problem and they get hornier with sex, you touch them, they want to be kissed, you kiss them, and so on

if they don`t tell you that ... well that`s another problem

by the way, did you ever wonder how people came up with the nymphs???

ummmm

no bad intentions on my behalf, ok?

EmoScreamo is a man - that's who I was responding to.

No hard feelings...

aaah, be very careful assuming that all women share the same type of sexuality. you could one day be mistaken for a bad lover.

Originally Posted by Darkmatters

Try abstaining for a while... should help.

Originally Posted by Darkmatters

EmoScreamo is a man - that's who I was responding to.

No hard feelings...

Yes, that's a way to get erotic dreams and even wet dreams if you wait long enough. I experienced this during my "research"
My aim is a little more sophisticated (right word?): I am searching for a way to get this full body shaking orgasm.

Originally Posted by EmoScreamo

Yes, that's a way to get erotic dreams and even wet dreams if you wait long enough. I experienced this during my "research"
My aim is a little more sophisticated (right word?): I am searching for a way to get this full body shaking orgasm.

you know, I got an idea

I tend to get extremely horny, if I am with a girl that provides some emotional stimulation too, the one you end up in a relationship in

no, not a gf in this case, that might spoil the "research"

so try this:

go out to the club, hit on girls, dance with them, kiss them, just don`t have sex with them that same night ... go home, turn on your virtual reality

you like it, try it out with that girl, a couple of days later

that`s in real life

just make sure your fantasies don`t envolve drinking goat blood and sodomizing people and other such obscurities ... okay???


and if you are under 18 ... ummm this post doesn`t exist, do a reality check NOW

Originally Posted by Darkmatters

Try abstaining for a while... should help.

I don't have a lot of sex, I probably haven't in a few months. And I have these dreams whether I am or not and I'm definitely not trying to stop them haha. But honestly hpnfreak IS right, girls don't get less horny from having more sex. It's not like getting your fix and then you're satisfied. That's why women can have multiple orgasms