Thread: Dream Relationships?

In most of my dreams my husband is there.

I had many dreams like that before. I got same emotions like you did. I'll be very happy if someone can answer that one Maybe thats because those dreams directly affect the emotion center of our brains, I don't know. But I do know that when you wake up, you feel something strong. That is weird because I'm not a cheater type. I wasn't thinking somebody when those dreams happened.

I often have sexual dreams that involve someone other than my wife. Many of them are lucid, some are even when I'm thinking clearly.

I don't personally consider them cheating because they are dreams. Just as I don't consider fantasies cheating. My wife agrees with me on this. We both can dream about whoever. We can both fantasize about whoever and it isn't cheating. So when it happens I don't feel guilty. Usually I just wonder why I dreamed about whoever it was. Often my sex dreams are about people I would never sleep with in waking life.

I just chalk it all up to the random nature of dreams. Plus I've read in several places that during REM sleep blood flow to the genitals increases in both males and females. Thus it makes sense that dreams are often sexual in nature.

I'd only feel concered if the dream made me want to go out and persue a sexual or romantic relationship with someone else.

I tended to get that the other way around: dreaming about catching my significant other getting sexual with some random tool.

Anyway, I wouldn't worry about it, as I don't believe that our dreams always equal our fantasies/desires. I mean, come on - does the fact that I once dreamt of killing a man - and enjoying it - mean that I have a heightened potential for being a serial-killer? I submit that it does not. Your dreams have no more influence over whether you'll cheat than mine do over whether I'll murder someone.

I had dreams about people and become emotionally attached to them.

http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...ad.php?t=28746

i've had dreams about people and woke up feeling kind of drawn to them, i guess you could say.

one time, i actually dreamt about this kid. And when i woke up, i got that feeling. i thought it would go away in a few days, but it didn't. i ended up dating him for a few months haha.

Usually the feelings that I have towards people in dreams never carry over to real life. Exept once, when I was really angry at my mom in a dream for breaking a science project that I made and I woke up and started yelling at her.

Me: MOM! WHY'D YOU SIT ON MY SCIENCE PROJECT?

Mom: What science project? Do you even have a science project? *stands up and looks for science project under her chair*

Me: Oh... nevermind...

As for you saying that you feel like you're in love with this girl, my best guess is (aside from you actually being in love with the girl) that it could be like a residual emotion. Like my anger at my mom, exept their isn't any logical explanation for you to think you're not in love with this person in real life (unless there is and you just didn't say), like my non-exhistant science project tipping me off that I shouldn't be angry at my mom in real life.

And the snowboarding thing. I guess that a setting, or a plot, or just the occurance of something in a dream could make it stand out in your mind, if that setting, plot, etc. was significant enough to you. That's happened to me before.

So, in a nutshell, I doubt that you've fallen in love with someone just because you had a dream about them.

Do you even know them that well?

If you don't then how do you know their personality in your dream was accurate?

If you do know them in real life, I think you should ask yourself if you ever had feelings for them before the dream. If you didn't have any romantic attatchment to them before you thought you loved them then I bet it was just the dream that made you think that.

Hopefully, I helped.

I find that my dream relationships are necessary in my life, but people do not understand.

Yeah some enviroments in my dreams does seem so real, especially when i dream about my old neighborhood in another state, i only became lucid when i dream about it once. And by the way, that is my dream sign cuz i dreamt about it more than once.

Why blame yourself? Unless you're lucid it's not like you have a choice. Blame the DCs if you like.

I have dreams about railways being round Ireland in the places they used to be and travelling by trains in those parts and it feels so real.