I never fall in love in dreams. Most of my interaction in dreams that can be somewhat similar to love is general affection of spending time and fascination with someone else, which is far and away from the mad love that so many others seem to regard.

The only thing I could say would be my recurring DC, the Kind Man. I don't think he's much of a dream-guide or a lover or anything like that, though. I feel that dream stuff is pathological once it gets in the way of your functioning... If you are not feeding/clothing/etc. yourself because of dreams, then yeah we got a problem... Other than that, whatever, humans will do as they please.