Thread: Falling in love in dreams

My wife drempt of me for years before we met. She has the journals to prove it based on detailed descriptions of personality, appearance, and mannerisms. We've been married 20 years now. Of course, one could simply say that given enough time, her criteria would've been met by somebody else if not me. It's still an interesting thing to consider.

me personaly i been in luv with my child hood crush, i want her back in my life, in wakeing life that is,
but i see her every other night when i dream, but just cant get her number or her e mail address so we can talk in wakein life.
i even posted video n youtube to see if she see it, i was woundin if any one at there, would like help me get her back in my wakein life, if so, want share dream with me any one ???

I have a lot of lucid dreams. Sometimes the dreams are linked, and sometimes the dreams have nothing to do with one another. For the past five or six years, I've been dreaming about the same person over and over again. He's a real person, someone I've known for most of my life, and I fell in love with him through my dreams. Nothing can describe the emotions felt during those types of dreams. It's like what I'm feeling transcends all words. When I see him, everything's better.

These dreams don't occur every night; they seem to happen at random. I'll go to sleep and he'll be there, smiling and laughing. I can hear his voice when he talks, but I don't know what he's saying. Again, words mean nothing. When I open my eyes, I don't understand. I'm confused and angry and hurt. I don't understand why he keeps appearing when he does. I'm angry at the lack of understanding. More than that, I'm hurt. Every time I wake up from those dreams, it's like someone is ripping my heart out over and over again.

Even though it's a literal pain to have those dreams about him, I still enjoy the dreams when they occur. I think it's a wonderful escape from everyone and everything in the waking world. :]

I had dream about the same person for many times since ten years ago. He is my primary schoolmate but we haven't met for like 12 years and I have heard of or see him after graduation.
In every single one, I am his gf and some of the dreams he told me he is the one love for my life and we are mean to be together. I have a serious crush on him after these dreams. Even I know that is not possible to happen and I have a very good boy friend. But the dream never stops. I feel so happy in the dream that I never felt the same in the reality. And the dream was so real that I had the real feeling like happy, nervous, embarrassed... I can't say how much I hope this dream can come ture.

i've definetly had this experience. this is the biggest problem i have in my dreams. i have my story in dream interpritations if anyone would like to look. i would really appriciate all the help i could get on this. my post is called 'my life dream'

Chris Brown - Don't Wake Me Up - YouTube

For those who have fallen in love in a dream haha

I have fallen in love in dreams a few times, mostly with people I know in real life. Last night I had an interesting non-lucid dream, sort of related to the topic. I was hugging a girl (who I didn't recognize from real life) and while doing so an increadible euphoric sensation of warmth spread through my body. For me this was an interesting experience, as I usually don't feel warm or cold in dreams. Another remarkable thing is that the hug lasted for a very long time, and usually I wake up if I don't move or experience new things all the time. I don't remember if I woke up while hugging or shortly afterwards, but I got quite annoyed when I realized my experience wasn't real.

Oh I know what you are talking about, believe me. Something like this actually happened to me a very long time ago in high school. There was a girl in one of my classes that was really into me. Not only did I see it in her behavior, but I was told by many of her friends in secret. However, the feeling wasn't mutual. I was never rude to her or anything, I just didn't show interest.

Much later, about a year or so, I started having dreams about being in love with her. They were not sexual dreams, but dreams packed with a very strong feeling of "love", like a soulmate type thing, and unbelieveably intense. There was also marriage to her in one of these dreams. Guess what? These dreams changed me completely. I became crazy about her, literally. However she was now like a stone towards me. Very distant, "cold", it was mind-boggling! She didn't have a BF at the time, but she simply chose to ignore me as much as she could. It caused me alot of emotional pain and depression. This whole thing took many months to wear off.

It was so intense that I actually questioned if there were paranormal things at work, like if she cast a spell on me to get revenge or something for not paying attention to her. Yes, it was that crazy.

I am very thankful that I do not have these type of dreams anymore.

It has occurred to me many times. I usually wake up with some faint sense of longing, and a kind of waning emotion that I attribute to the sudden disruption and void that I feel afterward.

iv been a navy SEAL for 2 years now and i had a dream about falling in love with a blonde girl with light blue eyes i felt me holding her in my arms as she kissed my and told me to come back to her when the mission was all over i felt her kiss, her skin, and her heat. I took her to the pool and we swam together. I felt everything. I went to sleep twice that day just to see her again. I picked up right where I left off and the funny thing is, is that i miss her. I dont even know her name and i really dont want to believe the fact that shes not real i cant get her out of my head..She has to be real i felt it. i love her. please respond.

That sounds horrible. I can't imagine what that would feel like because it's never happened to me before. My dreams are like adventure children's movies. I'm usually a bit younger than I am now, but brave, strong, and righteous. I've been a boy just as often as a girl. I'm always the hero usually leading a small group of other kids on dangerous quests. I know it's kinda childish. I just turned 15. Maybe that's a sign that my subconsience is a bit childish? I don't mind really, my dreams are always extraordinarily vivid and creative, involving amazing far-away lands. I've never been in love or had a boyfriend even though I've been asked before.

I had this just last night. Creepy. I remember I was in bed with this really good looking girl and we were spooning. Now.. *emberassing part* I lifted up the covers and she had a penis. So.. not the type of falling in love dream I had expected

I just created this account because it just happened to me. I even wrote it down in a notebook at an attempt to never forget about her. I never met her before, and i don't know where she came from or who she is. In my dream i was working with my brother and there was this VERY attractive girl leaning on something. I left my brother and put my arm around her and she did the same to me. We laughed and i told her she was beautiful. I then told her about my life and we talked during 85% of the dream. We then walked around holding hands continuing to talk about our lives. (i remember other details about the dream like that there was a boss telling us what job to do, and a red truck i was supposed to drive but left my brother to do it to talk to this girl.) The boss called us in and said we were done. The girl then gave me her number and a flash happened and i was at home viciously looking around for her number. I had texted her once before because in my dream i looked at my phone to see i had but she never responded. I guess i typed it in wrong or something. I asked my mom if she knew about where the number was and she didn't. Then i woke up and felt like shit. The first thing i thought of when i realize it was a dream was suicide. I remember so much about her. Small details like her nose and big ones too. This was REAL LOVE! I will never love like this in REAL LIFE i am sure.I miss her so much. I wish i could at least remember her name. I don't want to quit typing because i know the moment i do shes gone. Ill be back to my lonely life now that i know what love is. All those love songs make sense to me now. May sound corny but i may end up killing myself. i feel as if i lost someone i knew my whole life. Goodbye my first and only love.

I think it's kinda weird that literally just about 4-6 months ago, I had a dream that I had a girlfriend... What's weird about that is, that in the dream, I remember her name was Clara... About the same height as me...blonde... and just 3 months ago, I happened to actually get a girlfriend... my first too... and her name actually IS Clara... In fact, she fits the description of the girl from my dream ENTIRELY. (and yeah we're still together. )

Hahaha, that's awesome, Nova!

I've had plenty of these dreams, they're so sweet, I like them. Makes me wonder if I'll ever feel the same way in real life...

My situation is kind of strange. The DC I was in love with rejected me (I was lucid then). He told me that he doesn't exist, but in my world he has a family (he meant a wife and a little son) and he was happy. He asked me not to change that.
Can someone explain what that could mean?

I often dream of love - last night was a little bit different. I don't remember how I met him. He never said a word. He looked at me with the most intense expression like he could see inside my soul, like everything was laid bare. I placed my left hand on his chest - strong, solid, warm. He was still looking at me intensely. He lifted my chin and kissed me. He wrapped his arms around me. I felt loved, secure, at peace. I remember his face though I've never seem him, I will remember his touch forever in case I meet him.

If he's out there I hope he finds me. I don't feel depressed or suicidal or tortured like some here. I feel blessed and have this morning placed my hand over my heart and thanked the source that sent the dream to me.

I believe we are connected to our true loves across lifetimes. In this life he is with another. Perhaps you should be too and the essence of your spirit needs to know that?

Most of the strange feelings you get are made up inside the dream, and it's more of the feeling you want rather than the thing I think.

I actually experienced something different, I fell in love in a dream with someone I knew in waking life.
I don't remember loving her before that dream.

so last night i was dreaming and i had this dream about this guy and i litarlly feel in love with him i havent stoped thinking about him all day long. i read that everyone in your dreams you've seen before. i think i might have a chance to find him ya know? i cant explain why i just love him! its crazy but i have to find him!

Originally Posted by kaye

so last night i was dreaming and i had this dream about this guy and i litarlly feel in love with him i havent stoped thinking about him all day long. i read that everyone in your dreams you've seen before. i think i might have a chance to find him ya know? i cant explain why i just love him! its crazy but i have to find him!

Originally Posted by DreamSkater101

Falling in love in my dreams are the most wonderful experiences I have ever had!
I am a college student, I have never ever experienced true ''love'' in real life, sure I've had boyfriends, yes. But not love. I sometimes doubt it actually exists. I somethings think it is probably just a made up fairlytale from the movies, and won't happen to me. It seems too perfect.

Then I dream about it.
In my dreams I experience true love. I'm not talking about anything sexual here, just love! The type of love where you have the most beautiful connection. It's something so strong you can't even explain. You can just be with each other, stare into each others eyes and know this is love. You can't pysically leave their side, you NEED them. This person completed you. It's like something you see in romance movies, I feel like Bella and he is Edward. I am Rose from Titanic, he is Jack. The amazing stuff i have watched oh so many times. I feel like I am a Classic Disney Princess! That is something I have never, ever experienced in real life. Only in my dreams can I feel this. It is also the only thing that makes me beleive and hope that this type of love does infact, live in reality too. That one day, I will find someone like I have found in my dreams.

I can agree with this post and relate as well. I have been dreaming for years of a childhood love, my first love. I am unsure if this girls is the energy or spirit of this girl (in this world) meeting me in lucid dreams, or if this spirit is my Guardian Angel, or True love or Soul Mate from a distant time or place or beyond. For years I have tried to get closer to her in dreams, almost gain her approval in ways. She has always slipped away at the last minute, smiling and knowing the time was not right. But just recently we kissed, and kissed...and kissed. The only way I can describe the experience was pure love. A feeling I have not fully been able to recreate or experience outside of my dreams. The feeling was pure bliss. Like I had no worries or problems in the world, because i was with this spirit. Almost like my body was pieced with another, creating one whole. Like the quote above, I look at this as a very positive experience, and I feel grateful and fortunate for these experiences.

Though it is hard to leave that feeling in a dream (so to speak), i look at this as a teaching or lesson or knowledge of what awaits. Maybe, A love in this world that I have yet to find, and as I progress with decisions that change my life in this world, I am able to get closer to that true feeling of love. I also feel this love could be a connection to a past love, or eternal love that if I do not find in the waking world, the Love will be waiting for me when I leave this world and slip into the ether.

I hope I can experience this love in my current lifetime as I have a feeling the world would change for the better just for it existing.

I also hope all others on this Forum can experience this love, who may not have yet and know that it waits for all of us in this world or the next. Love to all.

I had a dream recently where a woman was trying to help me get over the loss of my wife and I was filled with two feelings, missing my wife but being drawn to this woman who was trying to help me move on.

My wife is very much alive though. I woke up and was so thankful it was just a dream, but it made me confront the reality that we don't live forever and that someday I may have to move on after she's gone. I just hope I'm really old when that happens.