Thread: Falling in love in dreams

It just goes to show that in dreams, as in waking life, that the love is actually within us all the time and we project it onto others in our lives or in our dreams. People also fall out of love and this is because we see them as actual human beings who don't fulfill our expectations and our projections. When we fall in love, we fall in love with our idea of the person. The fact that one can fall in love in a dream shows my point.

But it also can give us great hope; it shows us that we can have love right now, that it is always within us, all we have to do is let it out. We don't need to wait for someone to have this unspoken mutual agreement where each one subconsciously agrees to accept each others' projections in order for mutual seduction. Once the seduction is over, once all the chemical reactions are complete we have to live with real people, not ideas. Then that is when "love" reveals itself for what it really is: a ego fulfillment game. Each person feels trapped by each others' projections and a power game ensues. Each person is trying to be free but to control the other. Then jealousy and anger arise. When it is all over then each person feels deceived and resentful.

But that is not real love. Romantic love is just delusion and lust disguised as love. Knowing this is very freeing. There is nothing wrong with lust. Go into lust with no delusions and with utmost respect for the other human being.

Real love is solid friendship and respect. Nothing exciting, just solid friendship. You know and love your friend as he or she is, so you don't project fantasies onto them. You give your friend freedom to be him/herself and you don't try to hold on to them or be jealous like you would with a delusional projection. So if you can lust after your friend and be best friends with your lover, you are lucky.

So, love in a dream is to be treasured, and to give you hope that you have all the love and bliss you will ever need within you at this very moment! Finding this love and bliss, you can share it with the world!

anyone know how i could possibly induce such dream?

that's a good question for me it just happens but with every happening comes a reason, so that reason is?? well idk, but I guess you must have very deep thoughts about love and feel that butter fly feeling you feel when you miss some sort of love, then alike your dreams should repeat such an event, em, I guess if you think about love and feel its emotion throughout the day after many days you should eventually have a dream about love and you will remember it, because, for e.g. if you think about basketball in the morning then you say wait I had a dream about basketball so think about love in the morning and say yes I did or did not have a dream about Love, try that for a few days if not, Idk unforutnatley.

I saw this thread and just thought I'd share some things from my journal. I don't usually write anything down, but when it's particularly distressing I might jot some quick things.

"Well I realize now I just keep having the same dreams.
They all involve someone who I love and loves me back.
I woke up crying after the dream. I couldn't take it. I don't usually cry because I just don't care enough. But it hit me when I woke up this time. It hit me hard. The moment I woke up. I just sobbed like a baby. For love.
I can't keep having these dreams. All it is is me and a girl. In love.
Well dreams can't get any more generic and sappy than that huh. It sounds that way, but the dreams really are deep. I love you. Whoever you are in my dreams. But you already know that.
Please come true dreams. Please.



Another dream about falling in love.
This time it was an old ex's sister.
But I realize the people I dream about are just people I've known being tools for the essence of love.
We were making music together outside. It was a game where you put together samples and make your own music. The interesting thing is we were in bed, outside in a fantasy world, playing it. Basically, everything I love about everything was contained here. Falling in love, beauty, music, and fantasy.

It took a little turn though. While staring at the clouds together, her mom (played by an ex ex's mom) showed up, but it was her dad (no one I know) who ended up driving us both to some exotic location that he wouldn't say.
We ended up going up and up a large hill. Up higher, and higher. Where we were going was just on the other side of this last hill, but as he drove up it, the car fell off and we all fell very far down to our deaths.
I remember then, seeing the news that me and the girl had died together while her dad barely made it out alive.

Can someone make these dreams stop. Please. I can't stand only living in my dreams. It's the only place I actually live anymore.
I want them to be true and all I can do is cry when I wake up."

I have...interesting dreams. A while ago, I had a dream(I will not give details). There was a girl in that dream, and I fell in love with her. Then, when I woke up again, I felt a loss the likes of which I had never known before. Then, I had another dream, but it was a continuation of the first. Same characters, same everything. I again woke up, feeling a great loss, but I decided to write it down, so that I can at least remember it. Also, this is a common occurrance, having dreams in which I fell in love with someone. However, I had never felt so connected to another dream, it made me not want to wake up, in fact, it felt real.

I have those types where you wake up and you can't remember there face or who they are. I know who mine is though. She used to go to my school. I think dream love is stronger than real love. But this girl IS real so it's like 100000x stronger!!

This happen to me today. I was a my school and it was this japanese girl sitting on a bench all by her self she couldnt speak swedish and only little english. I used to wave at her everytime i walked by and she always looked so happy and waved back. Then on day some guys where pushing here and calling her things and i could not just walk by or something so I ran into them pushing them away from her and after a fight they rana away. From there on i used to sit with her on my breaks trying to talk the best we could in english and she learned very quickly. Then on day her brother came and said to e i wasn't allowed to be with her. I punshed him in the face and continued to talk with Tao "ran rin ren, dont rember which of them " that was her name. This brother of her came back with 2 knives and said we're going to have a battle to the death. I dint really want to but had no choice. after a long and blody battle with cuts all over me i won but he wasnt dead yet. he called for one of his freinds to come. and he came witha big damn sword. i thought this would be the end of me but to my surprice her brother cut him self in two o.o anyway she was happy to not see her cruel brother again and wanted to move in with me. And thats where i woke up >_<. Now i just want to get back in that dream again and i tried to google her name to see if she was real xD. sorry if my dream and english is a mess :/

me personaly i been in luv with my child hood crush, i want her back in my life, in wakeing life that is,
but i see her every other night when i dream, but just cant get her number or her e mail address so we can talk in wakein life.
i even posted video n youtube to see if she see it, i was woundin if any one at there, would like help me get her back in my wakein life, if so, want share dream with me any one ???

I have a lot of lucid dreams. Sometimes the dreams are linked, and sometimes the dreams have nothing to do with one another. For the past five or six years, I've been dreaming about the same person over and over again. He's a real person, someone I've known for most of my life, and I fell in love with him through my dreams. Nothing can describe the emotions felt during those types of dreams. It's like what I'm feeling transcends all words. When I see him, everything's better.

These dreams don't occur every night; they seem to happen at random. I'll go to sleep and he'll be there, smiling and laughing. I can hear his voice when he talks, but I don't know what he's saying. Again, words mean nothing. When I open my eyes, I don't understand. I'm confused and angry and hurt. I don't understand why he keeps appearing when he does. I'm angry at the lack of understanding. More than that, I'm hurt. Every time I wake up from those dreams, it's like someone is ripping my heart out over and over again.

Even though it's a literal pain to have those dreams about him, I still enjoy the dreams when they occur. I think it's a wonderful escape from everyone and everything in the waking world. :]

iv been a navy SEAL for 2 years now and i had a dream about falling in love with a blonde girl with light blue eyes i felt me holding her in my arms as she kissed my and told me to come back to her when the mission was all over i felt her kiss, her skin, and her heat. I took her to the pool and we swam together. I felt everything. I went to sleep twice that day just to see her again. I picked up right where I left off and the funny thing is, is that i miss her. I dont even know her name and i really dont want to believe the fact that shes not real i cant get her out of my head..She has to be real i felt it. i love her. please respond.

I just created this account because it just happened to me. I even wrote it down in a notebook at an attempt to never forget about her. I never met her before, and i don't know where she came from or who she is. In my dream i was working with my brother and there was this VERY attractive girl leaning on something. I left my brother and put my arm around her and she did the same to me. We laughed and i told her she was beautiful. I then told her about my life and we talked during 85% of the dream. We then walked around holding hands continuing to talk about our lives. (i remember other details about the dream like that there was a boss telling us what job to do, and a red truck i was supposed to drive but left my brother to do it to talk to this girl.) The boss called us in and said we were done. The girl then gave me her number and a flash happened and i was at home viciously looking around for her number. I had texted her once before because in my dream i looked at my phone to see i had but she never responded. I guess i typed it in wrong or something. I asked my mom if she knew about where the number was and she didn't. Then i woke up and felt like shit. The first thing i thought of when i realize it was a dream was suicide. I remember so much about her. Small details like her nose and big ones too. This was REAL LOVE! I will never love like this in REAL LIFE i am sure.I miss her so much. I wish i could at least remember her name. I don't want to quit typing because i know the moment i do shes gone. Ill be back to my lonely life now that i know what love is. All those love songs make sense to me now. May sound corny but i may end up killing myself. i feel as if i lost someone i knew my whole life. Goodbye my first and only love.

so last night i was dreaming and i had this dream about this guy and i litarlly feel in love with him i havent stoped thinking about him all day long. i read that everyone in your dreams you've seen before. i think i might have a chance to find him ya know? i cant explain why i just love him! its crazy but i have to find him!

Originally Posted by kaye

so last night i was dreaming and i had this dream about this guy and i litarlly feel in love with him i havent stoped thinking about him all day long. i read that everyone in your dreams you've seen before. i think i might have a chance to find him ya know? i cant explain why i just love him! its crazy but i have to find him!

I had my first dream where I fell in-love last night. All my family had died and this guy was there for me, the only person I had left, I wasn't lucid, my family isn't dead irl. He made me feel like everything was going to be ok, I've never felt love like that, It was amazing and I will never forget him.