Thread: Having sex as the opposite gender?

It would be so amazing to have that dream! when you had it was it an LD? At the risk of sounding a little kinky, i've always wondered what sex would feel like if i were a man, so that would definately be a dream i would want to have!

I have so had a dream like this! Hehehe. It felt great.

This is my dream! To have lesbo sex!! I can't do it even lucid, which sucks.

Mine was actually not lucid. I had watched a show on Masters of Horror about these two serial killers who were murdering people and how this one girl got caught in between. I was replaying a scene in the room that the younger guy was in, except I was the female he was going to murder but instead was.. well doing intercourse with me as a woman.

Only time I've ever had that happen to me... I have had same sex dreams twice though, one recently (not lucid) with Angelina Jolie ... And I have no obsession with her. I was thinking about Beowulf (a new movie she's in) before bed one night and she happened to slip in there with a sexual dream. Quite odd. Another one I had was quick with a dark haired girl. Come to think of it, Angelina was the second time I did it in bathtub and I do not know why...

I did change genders during sex in LDs. It didn't felt differently for me, though, but it was fun to do.

ya that would be pretty cool. also, read this :http://dreamviews.com/community/showthread.php?t=44005.
its kinda related

I've done it twice; it was very realistic (I think) and fun.

I've done it a few times, it felt different but it was still enjoyable.

Isn't this some form of homossexuality? lol cause I'm curious... If you have sex as the opposite gender, you'll probably be doing it with a DC from the same gender as you... Or did you really feel like a person of the opposite gender and actually enjoyed being with the same gender?

Isn't this some form of homossexuality? lol cause I'm curious... If you have sex as the opposite gender, you'll probably be doing it with a DC from the same gender as you... Or did you really feel like a person of the opposite gender and actually enjoyed being with the same gender?

Lol this topic is being debated on another topic. I'll have to find it for you. Homosexuality is sexual relations with the same gender. If you flop genders in your dream and have the other gender have sex with you (IE, if you're a guy turn into a girl and have a guy do you) that would be considered heterosexual because it is in the mind. It is only considered homosexual since you're having sex with your same physical gender.

Now if you're doing it in real life then you'd be considered bisexual or homosexual. However, disregarding the physical relevance - you need to also understand that the flesh is nothing but a vessel for our consciousness and when you worry too much in regards to sexuality that you're simply bearing yourself with the insignificance of modern day conformities to society's standards.

IE: A 'typical' guy has to be emotionless and tough. Any sign of touching a guy or hugging him is 'gay'. This is nothing but an adolescent perception of the narrow minded.

And as for my dream of being a girl with a guy, yes that's how it was. Not female and female. It was enjoyable though. You'd be surprised of what other ways there are to experience pleasure, especially in your dreams.

Originally Posted by Absolute

Lol this topic is being debated on another topic. I'll have to find it for you. Homosexuality is sexual relations with the same gender. If you flop genders in your dream and have the other gender have sex with you (IE, if you're a guy turn into a girl and have a guy do you) that would be considered heterosexual because it is in the mind. It is only considered homosexual since you're having sex with your same physical gender.

Now if you're doing it in real life then you'd be considered bisexual or homosexual. However, disregarding the physical relevance - you need to also understand that the flesh is nothing but a vessel for our consciousness and when you worry too much in regards to sexuality that you're simply bearing yourself with the insignificance of modern day conformities to society's standards.

IE: A 'typical' guy has to be emotionless and tough. Any sign of touching a guy or hugging him is 'gay'. This is nothing but an adolescent perception of the narrow minded.

And as for my dream of being a girl with a guy, yes that's how it was. Not female and female. It was enjoyable though. You'd be surprised of what other ways there are to experience pleasure, especially in your dreams.

I get all of that, but still, in that dream you are in the position of your opposite gender... You may see the body of a girl, but it's your consciousness experiencing it... So it's interesting if you enjoy it, cause it could mean our subconscious is bisexual... Which would make us question our sexual identity.

And the thing about it being in a dream, sure, dreams are a little different from reality, but you did feel pleasure with a guy. Not that the idea bothers me, cause I'm gay, but it sounds somewhat strange that a straight guy or woman enjoys being in the body of the opposite gender having sex with the "same gender". Lol, just a thought...

Originally Posted by MrGrEmLiN

Isn't this some form of homossexuality? lol cause I'm curious... If you have sex as the opposite gender, you'll probably be doing it with a DC from the same gender as you... Or did you really feel like a person of the opposite gender and actually enjoyed being with the same gender?

Yes.

y'know, ive heard that guys dont have a "mess" to clean up most of the time. ive also heard that orgasm is much more...pleasurful than normal

Originally Posted by reality check!

y'know, ive heard that guys dont have a "mess" to clean up most of the time. ive also heard that orgasm is much more...pleasurful than normal

It must be, everything in dreams is much more pleasurable than in reality!

This sounds good. I might try it next lucid

^What a useless post that was

Originally Posted by Super Duck

This sounds good. I might try it next lucid

^What a useless post that was

Yours or mine? I'm guessing yours...

Nah no post is useless


(this one was just a excuse to post for another post count.)

had the luck to try different combinations

i didn't dislike at all having a penis, but i don't think i'd like male gay sex. luckily this last never happened!

Originally Posted by MrGrEmLiN

I'm guessing yours...

Correct, for infinity points!
MrGrEmLiN wins.

Originally Posted by italianmonkey

had the luck to try different combinations

i didn't dislike at all having a penis, but i don't think i'd like male gay sex. luckily this last never happened!

Lol I understand u, I probably wouldn't like to dream of being a lesbian either!

The debate on whether this is a homosexual act is irrelevant.
There is no questioning the fact that each gender experiences a completely different feeling during a climax so when you are in your LD as the opposite sex you are not experiencing the climax as your own true gender, only what your mind thinks the opposite genders experience would be like. The question is, is it an accurate experience?
A male can only guess as to what the feeling would be for a female during a climax and even having a real life homosexual experience as the "receiver" could not give them an insight into the feeling. The same goes for the female who cannot experience the feeling of an male orgasm as the "giver" in a lesbian encounter.
I would like to know what the female's orgasm feels like. I believe that their orgasms are better and more intense than a males.

Originally Posted by Ronstek

I would like to know what the female's orgasm feels like. I believe that their orgasms are better and more intense than a males.

If you look at it in a Charles Darwin/natural selection point of view, it only seems logical that female orgasms are more intense and pleasurable for women. If you think about it, who is more likely to become pregnant, a woman that orgasms only feels kinda alright, or a woman who's orgasms take them to another world and make them unable to speak, hence the term 'fucking her brains out'. The woman with the more pleasurable orgasms will want to have sex more than the woman with lesser orgasms, and will want to keep having sex longer, too.

my next ld goal is to be in a woman's body and see what it feels like to use a vibrator or dildo or something.

Huh. I'm suprised I never thought of this, I'm so perverted, if that's the word you would use. It's certainly the word my friends would use.

Having sex as guy? First I'm going to try simple intercourse XD.

Haha, yes, it has happened once. It was quite odd, I'm quite sure that that is not how it in fact feels to a lady. But an interesting experience nevertheless...