Help me

Ok here goes...
Well a little while back I had a dream that my grandmother and I were arguing. We were arguing about my grandmother wanting to go see an old friend in the nursing home. I had told her she shouldn't go because she wouldn't even remember who my grandmother was (in real life she would have) so my grandmother didn't go to see her. A day or two after in real life I had found out that she had just passed away. Next, had a dream about a family friend, can't remember the dream but I know he was in it somehow...turns out in real life he had just died or died the next day.....I frequently have dreams that have some sort of "coming true".....I guess I'm just scared of dreaming about someone else I love and having them die too. Recently I had a dream that the man that just died had an extremely long conversation with me on the phone (he was also dead I. The dream) what really upsets me is that I can't remember what was said at all. Can someone help me figure this all out please???

Can somebody please try to help me out...I don't even know if this is in the correct forum, if it isn't then I'm sorry, correct me so I know for another time.

People sometimes report having similar dreams. They can be disturbing. But it's not you doing it, you are not hurting them or making them pass away. Some people believe there is more to our life and abilities of our mind that we know about. Maybe there is some kind of a subspace connection between friends and families, that some are more sensitive to than others. I would take it as advanced notification and perhaps a chance to connect with someone in waking life one last time. Chance to say goodbye.

Bumping just for other possible opinions....gab, thank you for the post, very thoughtful

I'm not sure much help can really be given. I hope these dreams aren't affecting you too negatively. Anything is possible, perhaps you have a gift perhaps it's coincidence, perhaps it's as Gab said and it's your connection with your friends and family. Try not to dwell too much on it, especially if it's bothering you. Sorry if this post wasn't very helpful. (I feel this is more of an internal crisis and not many others can give the help you may want)

interesting, I wouldnt beat yourself up about these things, it sounds to me that you have a strong connection with friends and family which is coming through into your dreams,, you certainly are not the cause of anything that has happened in waking life, it sounds to me that you are just very tuned in, are you a very intuative or empathetic person? I have had some experiences like these, I also have explored and researched topics with assisting souls cross over to the other side and frequently do this in my dreams, most of the time I cross people I dont know and have never met who have just passed or are about to pass, it can be quite an emotional experience sometimes so perhaps if you research literature on "crossing souls over" it may shed some light on your experiences or point you in the right direction...

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Originally Posted by Mikhala

interesting, I wouldnt beat yourself up about these things, it sounds to me that you have a strong connection with friends and family which is coming through into your dreams,, you certainly are not the cause of anything that has happened in waking life, it sounds to me that you are just very tuned in, are you a very intuative or empathetic person? I have had some experiences like these, I also have explored and researched topics with assisting souls cross over to the other side and frequently do this in my dreams, most of the time I cross people I dont know and have never met who have just passed or are about to pass, it can be quite an emotional experience sometimes so perhaps if you research literature on "crossing souls over" it may shed some light on your experiences or point you in the right direction...

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Yes, I am very tuned in...if somebody in the room has a headache, I'll get one too. For example, my dad had an earache...immediately I had an earache on the same exact side, it was incredibly strong too. I can almost always recognize what someone is truly feeling or thinking...like if somebody is just being nice to my face I will be able to tell right away....I am always focused on body language and how people speak too. Maybe this is the root of my "problem" I definitely appreciate your answer, it was most helpful.......

I dont necessarily think you have a problem, I think it could be more of a gift you should continue to explore, I know many people who have similar experiences with feeling pain/energies of other people and it is generally a strong trait of healers to be able to pick up on these subtle energies. Perhaps you should look into Reiki as a starting point as this is one of the most widely known and common methods of energetic healing that requires you to tune into someone elses body and be intuatively guided to areas of pain/imbalance etc that require healing. There are certainly many other forms of energetic healing that can also be explored but this is a good place to start. I also think you could benifit from looking into some forms of spiritual protection to shield yourself from unwanted energies that you seem to naturally pick up from others, visualisation tequniques to cleanse your aura daily could be helpful. You may want to start by reading into the following for further information

- aura cleansing techniques
- psychic protection (I often have my guides assist with this or a simple method is to visualise a pyramid around your body which can assist in shielding you)
- Reiki / energetic healing.

..by the way, not all techniques will resonate with you so just use what you feel most comfortable with...