 Originally Posted by MoonageDaydream
Let me ask you a question, and then I'll refrain from interfering again. Promise.
Have you ever had a political debate then ended well? And by well, I mean, someone actually changed their opinion to yours, based on your arguement? Honestly, I think best case scenario is that people wind up agreeing to disagree, but so often, it's way, way worse than that. Especially when doing it in a public forum like this.
I recognize that perspective so well, I've definitely been there. Going in with the primary intent to change the other person's mind entirely (whether done consciously or not), no that's never ended well for me when I've engaged that way in the past, even marginally. Even if I make the "better" argument and actually verbalize it effectively, the stress, burnout, and potential for damaging relationships just never felt worth it for me. Part of that is that I really don't have the personality or skill set for heavy handed, full force debating I'm more of a "share and compare" kind of person, which could at times be considered a form of debate, I guess. And no, that style doesn't seem to be as common in public political discussions. Although, watching other people who are inclined to debate passionately, even aggressively while still making well thought-out arguments, I have to admit that can be useful in exploring an issue thoroughly. Nevertheless, I don't feel the need to engage with that particular style myself or understand the appeal. And I do agree that there's always that risk of a flame war when touching these topics - it's something to be mindful of for sure.
Here's another angle to consider; what if we tweak the purpose of the debate? What if it's not to change someone to drop their views and take on ours, but rather to expose ourselves to differing perspectives, expose other people to new perspectives, and to come up with solutions and policies that integrate the best of both? In my experience, the greater the difference in perspective, the greater the tension, the greater the challenge to communicate or to even keep the motivation to maintain an open engagement with one another... but also the greater the potential for innovative ways of approaching issues.
When we're willing and able to meet those kinds of challenges, the potential for positive change is enormous. Yes, you spend more time not knowing the details of what to do, have to think harder and be more creative in order to come up with solutions that meet a wider range of parameters, and have to be more focused and dedicated to overcome the inevitable temptation to give up on trying to understand someone who's position baffles you. Even after all that, trade offs still have to be negotiated. But on the other hand you've got more minds working on it towards a common goal from more angles and you've got the leverage afforded by insight rather than an eternal tug of war that only results in a weird mish mash of half formed, vestigial policies from opposing value systems.
 Originally Posted by snoop
Echo chambers are just as dangerous for the people in them as they are for the people excluded from therm.
Yes! Plus it really tends to lead to a lot of black and white thinking. Nuance, complex trade offs, consideration for context, all tend to go straight out the window, in part because people in an echo chamber do share so many assumptions that it's easy to neglect questioning the premises of a position. It becomes seen as "obvious" and therefore not in need of explanation.
 Originally Posted by Sageous
One of the things that is really trashing U.S. society right is the fact that so many people either exist in hermetically sealed echo chambers where everyone must agree or they're out (sometimes brutally), or they scream at each other from behind the safety of their distant devices without ever having an intention of arguing a point to convince someone with an opposing opinion... and thank you Big Social Media for perfecting the stage for both options. In both those scenarios there is no chance of a meeting of minds, or even the occasional distant nod.
Absolutely. Personally I see the amount of vitriol and division in the US as a bigger problem than any of the individual issues we're facing because it's cutting us off at the legs. There needs to be some recognition of a shared value system (at least to some degree) on a national level in order to provide rules of engagement when hashing out political disagreements and keep outright violence from erupting. As for social media I've managed to stay away from it for that and other reasons until more recently when I needed to create a couple accounts for my business. I try to keep it compartmentalized. I think we're seeing a trend here in this thread; DV members are more likely to be put off by social media 
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 Originally Posted by MoonageDaydream
Is it bad that I promised not to post here again, and I did? Sheesh. I'm awful. 
Oops, I just gave you more fuel... And no it's not bad. You went in expecting to watch things go down any minute like a YouTube comment section, but instead you just prompted us to think and engage in further thoughtful discussion
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