Thread: Sex

Replace "sex" with "chocolate ice cream", and this thread becomes very funny, because it's basically about a person who says he doesn't like something delicious, and an entire forum is trying to convince him that chocolate ice cream is really great, but he refuses to try it out, because his 40 year old buddy, who never ate chocolate ice cream, has a personality trait he admires, that he for some reason attributes to an aversion to chocolate ice cream.

Maeni said this:

"I think many of the arguments against Signet have been sort of rude and/or fallacious. This one is one of those easy ways to wave away his entire argument. What you're basically doing is saying that the argument can't be resolved until Signet turns 40. It's always easy to just say that someone is too young to get it, then you don't have to defend your argument at all. You'll get it when you're 40, you'll get it when you're a parent, you'll get it when you've tried it.
Don't worry you'll agree with me once you're smart."

Maeni, that is not at all what my point was. How much did you look into our dialogue? Look before you leap. I said that he does not need to worry about sex as a teenager because he is still a kid and that a person isn't ready for sex until he or she is ready to handle a pregnancy. It sucks that people so young get messed with by social pressure to have sex. I added that if he is still a virgin at 40, it will depress him. He disagreed and offered to contact me when he is 40. I told him I will still be checking in here once in a while then. Understand?

Originally Posted by Maeni

What the fuck. Everyone here is making sex out to be something ridiculous that it isn't.
Signet is right that you don't need to have sex before marriage, but you're basically saying that love = sex, which is also bullshit.

It seems that one of you is arguing that sex is this magical end-all answer to life, while the other is arguing that sex is the source of all evil.
What sex really is is when two people touch each other and it feels nice.

Ideally the people of the future will realize this and they'll stop making such a big fuss out of it. Most people will want to have sex and so they do; it's not a big deal to them they just do because why not. There's no reason to be abstinent but also no pressure to do it. It's like, hey, here's a bowl of nuts, you can take them or you can leave them. Right now sex has a shit load of connotations, both negative and positive, and it's making threads like this possible. People need to realize that sex isn't magical, it's just a nice thing.

So, maeni, have you had sex? I'm pretty much positive you haven't, considering the whole pedo thing.
What makes you so sure it's JUST something that feels good?
If that were the case we'd be happy with dildos and fleshlights.

No, there is far more to it. Of course it depends on why you're doing it, who it's with.
It can just be something that feels good if you pick some hot chick up at a bar and fuck her in the toilets and leave as soon as you cum.
If you actually love the person, it is SO fucking much more than "something that feels good".