Paperdoll:
I think the most important thing blu said in that post would be to look for the wisdom, or the beauty, or whatever else you can in other people and things, rather than looking for the faults and downfalls. It is a sort of self reflection. People that feel bad about themselves often look for the faults in others to feel better about themselves, even if they do it subconsciously. I did it for a long time, trying to make myself feel better by always seeing the faults in others. I didn't know I was doing it at the time, but I do now, and now that I know how I was acting, I can remember to never do that again. People are people, we are all the same, we all have our faults and we all have our wisdom and beauty and whatnot.
I think that blu is trying to say that he thinks your anger/sarcasm comes from depression, or sadness, and that this sadness or depression comes from the something that is wrong in your life. I think he really wants to help. But that's all bunch of shit that I think. I know that's how shit was for me, but even if someone had said something to me like I'm saying to you now, I probably would have blown them off. I kind of wish that you two's ongoing debate would end... I know I practically started it, but I've said my piece elsewhere and been done with it. I've let go of any stupid animosity I may have had on my bad day a few days ago.
If any thing I said was relevant, cool. If not... whatever. I think, however, that blu should drop his trying to "reveal" things to you that you don't care about. Either that, or you should try and find the meaning in what he's saying and quit being sarcastic, hateful, and bitchy. Either that, or you two should take your bitching to a separate post, or keep it "pm style" so that there aren't all these random posts all over the board about shit that has nothing to do with anything.
But hey, if I should just keep my mouth shut, let me know...
Oh, wait... too late...
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