Thread: quick question

ok i've been hanging out with a girl lately, we do everything together. i see her everyday and it's been like this for a month now. we flirt all the time and always have a good time with each other... well last night i had a dream where she was plotting to kill me. we were both at a party and i just got this feeling that she was out to kill me... i didn't have any reason to think this. so i kind of avoided her at the party... this in turn made her angry and as the party is winding down she comes up to me and gives me a big hug. as i'm pulling away she bites my ear off and i bleed to death, she sits in the corner and cries as i die.

what the hell could it mean? is she not healthy for me to be around? in real life she's the sweetest thing on the face of the planet and she's told me that she likes me. so she's not killing me emotionally or physically... could it just be a random crazy dream?

Woah, maybe deep down you're afraid it's too good to be true? Sort of a self sabatoging dream?

I dunno, just my best hunch. But my dad is a shrink and he says that psychopathic murders can be the coolest people on the surface. So you neeeever know......

So but seriously, I'm sure it'll all work out fine.

Just make sure before sex you check under the bed for an ice pick!

Yeah i would agree that some psychoes can seem like the best of people. On contrast, is this dream any more meaningful and scary, to all the other crazy ones you have had?
Besides having a girl you really like in it, what is differen now to make you develop feelings in the waking world so strong from in the real world.

I think you might be afraid of being intimate with her. It seems like you care for her and maybe want the future to go well so you might just be nervous. Well that my instinct on this one.....

Just thinking about this again, maybe this is a test, a sign. She could be someone you 'truly' like/love.

now that i think about it i'm probably just hesitant about getting hurt; there's only been one other girl that i saw through the same eyes and she's in another city right now.

I say go for it dude if you really like her. Life is too short for regret. Just enjoy and dont think too much. (easier said than done i know)

Peace Sensi.

ohh i've already gone for it but this dream just had me confused.

Sweet, enjoy the ride.....no pun intended

That's cool how you have done something about it ey, hope it works out well.

pssss, any juicy details

these are possibley your own fears materialising in this way. fears like some one earlier posted that things may be to good to be true. kind of like the dreams i used to have when my boyfriend cheated on me... not that he ever did/had!!

Originally posted by sensi
I say go for it dude if you really like her. Life is too short for regret. Just enjoy and dont think too much. (easier said than done i know)

Peace Sensi.

Easier said than done, true, but the world is a much better place when people say what they feel and don't leave the others to guess. Trust me, I know...