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      Just a little lost mandy_jewel's Avatar
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      Dream of unborn daughter I lost

      I had a dream I just can't get out of my head... April of 2005 I lost my unborn daughter. I had a dream that I was looking through baby skeletons trying to find her (I was only 3 and half months and there was no funeral etc).

      This isn't the only dream I've had of her, but this is the most disturbing.

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      well disturbing events from the past may stay with us. If there was a disturbing moment the day before then maybe that triuggerd this off. Maybe seeing someone elses young child. That could have made the memories flooding back.

      But sometimes this maybe about something bad happening in your life right now. It may mean that you are judgig something that happeend just now is making you as upset as when you lost your child.
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      Many dreams are about your current frame of mind. In some ways they are about your fantasies. We dream about how cool we will be in such and such a situation. In our dreams and fantasies we are Spiderman. Yet dreams are also realistic and will contain cryptic messages showing how we are becoming unrealistic in our thoughts. We allow ourselves to get carried away with how things will improve. In truth we are merely motivating ourselves. If we achieve half of what we want in our dreams then we are doing well. If you have been lying awake in bed and thinking about the day to come then that fantasy may appear in your dreams. The connection may not be obvious but it’s definitely there.
      Generally an upbeat dream is likely to be about the future and how we are trying to get ourselves into the right frame of mind to tackle the problems and sitations in our lives.

      These pages are especially helpful in showing you how to interpret dreams
      http://unclesirbobby.110mb.com/dreamessayhowtopost.php Interpreting dreams
      http://unclesirbobby.110mb.com/dreamessayhowto.php Triggers for dreams
      http://unclesirbobby.110mb.com/dreamessay.php Dream dictionary

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      I am sorry for you loss, it seems to me that you are still going through the grieving process after such a traumatic experience it will take some time to get over such a tragic event.

      Have you received any counselling of sorts? I think it would help if you could find someone to talk to a professional or even a good friend, you obviously still have pain that you need to release and talking will help.

      Many people try to not talk about their loss for fear of upsetting others and not having a proper funeral has robbed you in some part of the grieving process.

      Maybe it would help if you could make some sort of memorial to your daughter, plant a tree in her memory somewhere you can visit her when you feel the need to. Remember it is not our bodies but our spirits that live on.

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      Yea, I think you're still trying to get over this. I mean loosing a child would be very traumatic for anyone. Maybe you're dreaming about that because you still have the pain of wanting her back and your mind is creating something to be able do that. I understand how you feel. When my dad died I had a lot of dreams about death. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope in time you won't have as many disturbing dreams. I think that would just make the grieving much worse. Again I am so sorry.
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