Dream--- War and Love. What does this mean? please help

I'm repost this i put it in the wrong thread before... sorry i'm new!

There was a war going on and I had to go the bathroom so I went to an out house shut the door and then it was pitch black and I couldn’t find my way to a toilet I walked carefully to the end I put my hands on the ceiling to help with balance but I still couldn’t see… I was struggling to not fall in to the outhouse sewage pit when then this guy (who I don’t know in real life) barged into the outhouse and grabbed me and held me close… he was wearing and army suite and he just held me like he could never love anyone again but me and I felt the same way we left the outhouse and the a war was still going on out side so we ran for safety where we could find a safe place to just be together. We were running thought the lush green outdoor where this battle was going on… and we found our selves in the middle of a surprise attack… but there was no bombs it turned out that the war was a giant game of dodge ball and the players were people I use to go to college with. I got hit a couple times but rather then sitting out I threw a couple balls back at the other team… the army guy was holding on to my arm and telling me to no throw or to fight but to come with him we got out of the way of the battle we came across a parking lot it was for a car garage and I ran into this girl I use to know (who in real life was left at the alter) , she was wearing over alls with only one strap done up and cover in greese she was cleaning off a wrench with a cloth and she had been working on cars.We asked her why she wasn’t fighting but I don’t remember her response and then some guy with big brown curly hair was walking across the parking lot to go see her and the dream ended.


Also I am a 21 a female lebra... i'm from canada and i think this was an epic dream if that helps any
also i'm kinda the anti war type

The war is going on within yourself over toxic waste inside of yourself that needs to be rid of (out house) You need balance in your life as you are doing to much of one thing and not enough of the other and if you don't balance this out you will fall into the pit.

The man is an aspect of your personality, he is called your shadow. Since you are against war and he represents war and the two of you like each other, it is telling you to embrace your shadow (the parts of yourself you don't like) this would help balance your life out. Read the book " The Dark Side of Light Chasers" its about your shadow.

War is not a game and participating in the game shows that you need to accept the fact that war is out there instead of dodging your thoughts about it. You don't have to like it but you have to acknowledge it and accept it the best you can.

The girl who was left at the alter is another shadow aspect of you. You are not accepting your whole self. This girl shows up in man's cloths doing man's work. You need to balance you life by integrating your animus.

Good luck. You can find anima and animus in google as well as Yin and Yan.