Reoccuring dream need to know what it means

[jezzy]

Ok I will start by saying I am married and have a one year old little girl. I keep having a dream about my husband in a helicopter and he crashes and dies in the helicopter and I marry this other guy that I went to school with a while ago he was going to ask me to the prom but he never did so I went with someone else but now I am having these sexual and non sexual dreams about the guy who didn't take me to prom supposably he liked me but never did anything about it. I am not sure what I am feeling probably confused because I am not suppose to be dreaming about this guy but every night he comes up in my dreams. Please tell me what this means. Jessica

[Burned up]

Ok I will start by saying I am married and have a one year old little girl. I keep having a dream about my husband in a helicopter and he crashes and dies in the helicopter and I marry this other guy that I went to school with a while ago he was going to ask me to the prom but he never did so I went with someone else but now I am having these sexual and non sexual dreams about the guy who didn't take me to prom supposably he liked me but never did anything about it. I am not sure what I am feeling probably confused because I am not suppose to be dreaming about this guy but every night he comes up in my dreams. Please tell me what this means. Jessica Jessica For a start let me say what it doesn't mean. It doesn't mean that you don't love your husband and he you. And it doesn't mean you fancy this other guy. That said, there is something in your unconscious that conflicts with your conscious. Something that says "the part of me that manifests as my husband is dying but the part of me that manifests as this other guy is alive and active". So, what is that part / those parts of you? Inside you will have repressed thoughts and feelings that are "not you". In other words, everthing you're capable of being but aren't is repressed. Identification with the opposite sex is one such example. You are female so the capacity to be male is repressed (whatever that means to you - e.g. rational). Your choice of partner is influenced by these repressed feelings and thoughts - kind of looking for lost parts of yourself in somebody else. Anyhow, there seems to be a "lost part" of you that you're looking for in your husband and not finding. But something about your feelings/memory of this other guy is reminding you. If you can access those thoughts and feelings then I suspect you'll stop having these dreams. In short, look within and don't try changing your outside world.

[timeless petal]

Jessica For a start let me say what it doesn't mean. It doesn't mean that you don't love your husband and he you. And it doesn't mean you fancy this other guy. That said, there is something in your unconscious that conflicts with your conscious. Something that says "the part of me that manifests as my husband is dying but the part of me that manifests as this other guy is alive and active". So, what is that part / those parts of you? Inside you will have repressed thoughts and feelings that are "not you". In other words, everthing you're capable of being but aren't is repressed. Identification with the opposite sex is one such example. You are female so the capacity to be male is repressed (whatever that means to you - e.g. rational). Your choice of partner is influenced by these repressed feelings and thoughts - kind of looking for lost parts of yourself in somebody else. Anyhow, there seems to be a "lost part" of you that you're looking for in your husband and not finding. But something about your feelings/memory of this other guy is reminding you. If you can access those thoughts and feelings then I suspect you'll stop having these dreams. In short, look within and don't try changing your outside world. hey burned up, that is an excellent interpretation!! Nuff said"