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Just something I've been wondering for a while. Is there any general meaning for dreams about losing something or someone and still be happy about it?
To resume the specific dream: I was somewhere near where I live, and I noticed I'm chained (chained with ...a chain) to a girl whom I don't even know all that well. The only thing we had in common was the same tutor, and we only actually met there like once or twice a week, but never talked to each other or anything (in short, a stranger). Then I can't really recall how the chain broke off, and I saw her leaving on a bus (it seems my dream self knew she was leaving forever). And after I couldn't see the bus anymore I jumped around all happy and laughing, I even said "I'm finally free" ...and woke up soon after.
Like I asked before, just wondering if there's a general meaning for this kind of dreams, but in-depth meanings are also welcome :P
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No doubt, you are afraid of engaging youself into a fix, stable relationship. Depending on how old are you, I don't know if it's for good or wrong.
One of the main problems of ours is that we HAVE TO make decisions. Something for something, no way out.
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On the surface I would agree with Rav1, it sounds a lot like fear of a committed relationship. But my other guess is that this girl represents the tutoring itself, and the lessons. You were able to opt out of it all and feel free because you never liked it.
