Thread: The Girl Of My Dreams

Hey Siav!

First of all many people experience dream love. It can be as intense and real as any other form of love.

Secondly, only you really know why this girl is popping up, but my explanation would be that you were feeling lovesick, lonely, lovelorn etc. Maybe recently you've been thinking alot about finding a partner, and its cropped up in your dreams.

Originally Posted by Siav

So...I don't really know where to start. But throughout many of my dreams, there's this girl. And she's not just like, any girl. She's amazing. I see her and feel so...I don't want to say in love. But it is. I've had plenty of "crushes" 'n stuff, but it's just so real. When I wake up, the first thing I think is I want to go back to see her. It's wierd, because that feeling passes right on into reality, as strong as it was in the dream. She's always elusive, and several basis' of my dream have been searching her out. Seeing glimpses of her and feeling like I was on top of the world. Those dreams have always been the most amazing...I remember once, I met her in this little bar/cafe. I saw her, and she smiled and walked out. I felt like my heart was going to break out of my chest. I walked out of this normal bar into this massive sky city, buildings towering past the clouds. It felt good, and clean. Everything was sparkling and I felt really at home. I felt like I could soar, and I wanted her (not specifically sexually) sooo bad. I just had this feeling like I would trade anything to just have her in my arms. Sky cars soared over my head, and she was riding in one of them. I rode this dragon, massive and soaring high...I was so sure I could catch her on it. But I couldn't. She's always been out of my reach, and it bothers me. The feelings are so strong reality and in my dreams, but she's a dream and I can't seem to ever meet her. I feel in my dreams this irrefutable feeling that I'm supposed to meet her and be with her. Honestly...my dreams can be so clouded and wierd, and then if she happens to pop up, or be in them, everything becomes so clear and vivid.
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Maybe what you're experiencing is an astral projection type of dream which means that this girl could actually exist somewhere in the world and both of you are meeting in the astral plane when you leave your physical bodies. But then again, it may also be a regular dream which is reflecting your own needs/wants/desires. If it's the latter, then that could be useful also because this way whenever you meet a girl you can determine if she's "the one" by seeing if you experience the same type of intense feelings/love as you feel when you encounter the girl in your dreams.

Dream love is wonderful but heartbreaking, isn&#39;t it? D: <3

Wow, that&#39;s pretty intense. Do you have a clear vision of what she looks like? Wouldn&#39;t it be crazy to see a girl in real life that resembled her? What would you do?

I really don&#39;t know...lately, I haven&#39;t been feeling lovesick or anything. Maybe subconsciously...But I think somehow those feelings would surface in my conscience in ways other then dreams.

But wow, this whole dream love thing is really intense and breathtaking. But it really sucks waking up to reality. It&#39;s stronger then really anything I&#39;ve ever felt before, which strikes me as really amazing. I&#39;ve never been in love, just the highschool crushes and all, so this is totally new.

As for what she looks like, I know that I always remember what she looks like right after my dream, but the memory of her always fades over time, till I see her again. I think she has brown hair, but the thing is, it&#39;s so much more than just physical looks. There is something about her that, well, reaches into some kind of fourth dimension. This glow that just makes her more than any other dream character I&#39;ve ever met. It&#39;s wierd. And as for if I saw her in real life..I&#39;ve often thought about that. I know for a fact I would go talk to her, and see if she was really my "dream-girl". Then I would ask her to marry me on the spot. No but seriously, I think I would do just about anything to go and talk to her if I saw her in real life. Even risk utter and complete humiliation. That&#39;s about how bad I "want" her.

Treat her as if it is the last time you will ever see her (because it might)

You&#39;re right. That&#39;s what I&#39;ve been trying to do...to just hold her for a few seconds, or even so much as get her to stay with me for a fleeting moment. But I don&#39;t even get that....And in an odd way, I&#39;m scared I won&#39;t ever see her again...that would be really depressing.

Originally Posted by Siav

You&#39;re right. That&#39;s what I&#39;ve been trying to do...to just hold her for a few seconds, or even so much as get her to stay with me for a fleeting moment. But I don&#39;t even get that....And in an odd way, I&#39;m scared I won&#39;t ever see her again...that would be really depressing.
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Wow.... you sound a lot like me. D: </3