Thread: Having sex with dolls? (NSFW)

I have a lot of dreams where I have sex with female dolls even though I am a straight girl, what does it mean and why dolls?

hmm, it could be that you are interested/curious about girls, but only sexually. just my thoughts.

When I was a kid, I had lots of dolls and they were mostly female, but I would pretend that some of them were male, because i had a shortage of male dolls. So maybe the gender of the dolls matters less than the fact that they are dolls? The sex is not real just pretend. Could it be you are nervous about having sex with a real person and would like to depersonalize it to make it less real? Sex without a real partner, without the complications of a real human being. Maybe you worry that you won't find a real partner? Or have you been hurt by a significant other emotionally and thus would like to depersonalize the other, they are not real and thus can't hurt you any more: a safe partner, one where you are in full control, nothing to worry about. A doll is make belief. Maybe this is about fantasizing what it would be like. Are you a virgin in waking life? If so, maybe you do not know fully what to expect yet, so your dream is showing you this way that your expectations may be unrealistic. I could go on, but without knowing more about you, there is less chance of guessing correctly. If none of those guesses ring true, consider telling us something about yourself.

Originally Posted by JoannaB

When I was a kid, I had lots of dolls and they were mostly female, but I would pretend that some of them were male, because i had a shortage of male dolls. So maybe the gender of the dolls matters less than the fact that they are dolls? The sex is not real just pretend. Could it be you are nervous about having sex with a real person and would like to depersonalize it to make it less real? Sex without a real partner, without the complications of a real human being. Maybe you worry that you won't find a real partner? Or have you been hurt by a significant other emotionally and thus would like to depersonalize the other, they are not real and thus can't hurt you any more: a safe partner, one where you are in full control, nothing to worry about. A doll is make belief. Maybe this is about fantasizing what it would be like. Are you a virgin in waking life? If so, maybe you do not know fully what to expect yet, so your dream is showing you this way that your expectations may be unrealistic. I could go on, but without knowing more about you, there is less chance of guessing correctly. If none of those guesses ring true, consider telling us something about yourself.

The depersonalization is what I thought it was - being hurt and not trusting "real people" anymore. Haha

LevanaMoon

What you see in the dream is just a set of symbols. What you saw has nothing to do with sex with dolls or whatsoever.

It relates to a social relation that you have with someone. You are trying to be kind with that person or give him/her some advances that you want to establish relations with them but the other person is either tough or cannot understand your point.

Oh, nice point! Or maybe I am not developing my own feminine side because I'm being too harsh with myself

I also seek the more feminine and nurturing side in others, whether female or male, and they don't always show it to me, or it turns out that what I was searching for didn't even exist!

Do you understand what I'm saying?

Originally Posted by LevanahMoon

Oh, nice point! Or maybe I am not developing my own feminine side because I'm being too harsh with myself

I also seek the more feminine and nurturing side in others, whether female or male, and they don't always show it to me, or it turns out that what I was searching for didn't even exist!

Do you understand what I'm saying?

In fact, what you said shows that you have started to form an understanding of the dream and yourself. This is exactly what is meant by saying: the best interpreter of your dream is yourself.

Originally Posted by Mar2000

In fact, what you said shows that you have started to form an understanding of the dream and yourself. This is exactly what is meant by saying: the best interpreter of your dream is yourself.

Thank you for the encouragement and perspective! Dream interpretation is so fun and healing!