That is very interesting - I hadn't considered about '"forgiving the unforgivable"'! It is true what you said about caring for this friend as we both have invested a lot to each other. In my angry/disappointed/hateful state of mind, I have overlooked about the issue of forgiveness, of maybe finding a mutual ground between us or of maybe backing down. The one obstacle right now is that because the fallout just happened so recently (a couple of months ago), we're still both too stubborn to back down. I will definitely give myself some 'healing time' right now and maybe in a couple of months I might be more open to dialogue and we might see eye to eye..