Sleep haunted by ex wife

[AeroStrett]

I've never really tried to understand my dreams before, but these particular dreams are messing with my emotions so I wanted to see if I could get some idea of what (if anything) they mean. Background ------------- I've been divorced for 4 years, my wife had an affair with one of her work colleagues and left shortly afterwards. It broke me, severely. I haven't really had a lasting relationship since. I've had occasional dreams about her since the day we met but over the last few weeks its become an almost nightly occurrence. The dreams never really seem to be the same, but regularly involving her. I'm struggling to remember any real detail of any other than the most recent two. The Dreams ------------- 1. Me and my ex were in the house we rented before we split up. I remember finding out that she was expecting and feeling overcome with joy. It seemed as if the pregnancy rapidly progressed, going from just finding out to her being in the late stages in the blink of an eye. The whole dream only involved the two of us for the majority, only in the setting of our old house. The only other person in the dream was her mother, I remember sharing the news with her but I don't remember in which stage of the dream it was. I remember the crying a lot throughout the dream and waking up feeling very emotional with a big sense of loss which stayed with me for quite a while after I had woken up. 2. Most recent. I was out in a club that I didn't recognize. Just a generic club, dark setting, smoke, colored lights, I remember the atmosphere of loud music but I can't actually remember any music (if that makes any sense?). I wasn't or couldn't interact with anyone, almost like I was a spirit overlooking the scene and watching it play out. All I really remember is seeing her dancing, it looked like she was on a girls night out with friends that I've never met but I think I saw them in photos on her facebook sometime after we split. I remember her and her friends flashing for someone taking photos and feeling really angry. Then the next thing I remember was seeing the screen on the camera like someone was holding it in their hands and tilting it to show me and the photos that were taken were only of my ex. I remember feeling really sad and then waking up. They are the only two that I remember in any great detail but she's popping into my dreams most nights, sometimes its about her, sometimes shes just there. Its weird because we haven't seen or spoken to each other for almost a year but the dreams have become more frequent, intense and emotional over the last few weeks and I'm not sure why or what it means. Any insight would be gratefully received. Aero.