I have been attempting lucid dreaming for the past few weeks, WILD after 4-6 hours sleep, but have not yet succeeded.

Anyway, last night, I fell to sleep, and I was in a dream on my grandmas street, at the end of the street there is a stairway you walk up to reach the next street.

I walked to the steps but at the top of the steps there was just a bright light, and I could hear people talking and partying. I could feel the peoples hapiness up there, and I thought to myself, what's this? Suddenly a women appeared and said that is heaven, I said to her do I have to go? She said no. I said if I don't go now, will I have another chance to go? She said yes and dissappeared.

Anyway, that is the end of the dream. I don't think it was lucid, because I'm a silly person who would have walked up to talk to deceased relatives!

I know there's plenty of expert dreamers on here, so could someone please help me with this?

Thanks .