Having many dreams about A Girl lucid and non lucid

So there is this girl i know in irl that i like. I have had two lucid dreams and want to do fun things but always find myself trying to create her other than doing fun things like i want to do it's like i don't have control over what i do in my lucid dream even though it is lucid. So far she has been in over 20 my normal dreams it seems like my subconsicous is almost obsessed over her.

It takes more than 20 dreams to get used to gain control in dreams like these. You like her but does she know if you like her in real? Maybe that is the problem?