dream or memory of a warning.

[taiji973]

I had a dream when I was a kid. I cannot tell for sure if it was a dream or a memory. But it related directly to my future and i wanted to know what i should make of it. It started out as a normal day as a kid in Lufkin Texas. I was walking with 3 of my older brothers and my sister. It was a hot day. I can even remember the heat of the sun. They were talking about this time we were chased by a local gang we were fighting with. We were walking next to the street, it was mid summer, the grass was mostly dead and crunchy as it hasn't rained in a while. There was a cool soft breeze and i always enjoyed these conversations. Suddenly there was this older Chinese lady walking opposite of us pushing a shopping cart. Her face was ugly, her hair black. her face looked like she could be 60 or 70, but she walked okay. She wore a dark ground rag over her hair, and a light brown jacket, which i thought wad weird considering the weather. as we passed, she stopped and looked at me, and i realized she. Had something to say. my brothers briefly looked back and walked on as if i wasn't even there. The lady spoke in a heavy Chinese accent, so i couldn't understand, at the home, not dealing with many Chinese. I remember her warning me to stay a virgin. I looked at her like she was crazy and not knowing what to make of it. She repeated tostay a virgin or i would never master... something. I said your crazy. She said never mind, i knew you were a waste of time. i looked over and noticed my brothers getting farther away. i felt anxious but knew i needed to talk to her. i asked her why, and she said blah and blew me off. i repeated just tell me why, and she stated again i was a waste.i ran to catch up to my brothers and asked them why they didn't wait for me. they said they didn't know what i was talking about and had no recollection of the lady. I never seen her again but remember the dream like it was yesterday. I don't remember the style but i found it odd as later on in life i got involved in internal Chinese martial arts. Any ideas what this could've been? At the time i knew nothing of martial arts. I have a few more dreams i ferl were related. wow. sorry about all the spelling errors. not easy to post here on a phone....