And in reply to your second question
Firstly remember that like I said in my original reply, I'm assuming a psychoanalytical version of the unconscious. There are other theories on what the subconscious/unconscious is, but I figure why not go for the experts on the matter
Ok, back to the point at hand:
You have to remember the unconscious is not a person. It doesn't react like a person, it doesn't interact like a person. The unconscious is a collection of desires, associations, urges, fears, believes, and so forth.
We often say that the 'unconscious' talks to use in our dreams, but it doesn't. It doesn't actually 'act' at all. We get glimpses of our unconscious in the dream, but using a metaphore, it can be a lot more helpful to think of the unconscious as a massive blueprint of 'who you are'.
Now to continue this analogy, this blueprint is unfinished. it's still being drawn. And things are constantly being added, changed, manipulated. Every single experience in your life, even something as simple as you reading this or you sitting on your chair, is making minute changes to this ever-evolving blueprint.
So yes, the blueprint can be influenced, most certainly. But not like a person. What could you possibly advise it to do (when it doesn't even 'do' anything to begin with)?
"Try and be more kind to others"? The unconscious is neither kind or unkind.
"Don't fear heights so much?" The unconscious doesn't fear, it doesn't love, it doesn't even feel.
"Try and be smarter?" The unconscious is neither smart or dumb.
These are all the attributes of a person. The unconscious operates an entirely different level. That's why you cannot interact with it like you suggest. Sure you can say things to your dreamcharacters in your dreams, and doing that will in fact have some sort of effect on the unconscious (because everything does). But listening and acting on a suggestion implies choice, and choice... is a conscious thing.
And ugh, this is getting highly theoretical now
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