hello all i am new to the forum this is my first post, ive always been very intrested in dreaming and i truely beleive there is some sort of reality to it but anyway, my problem is that sometimes i can tell i am dreaming but i try to take advantage of it and i cant do anything, like whenever i realize i am dreaming i always try to make a girl i like appear, same girl every time, and i think really hard in my head like i want her to appear and i even picture her like standing there but she still doesnt appear, this isnt just for her i just wanna figure out how to take control of my dreams like i can seriousyl talk to someone in my dream and say dude i am drreaming right now and stuff so i know i realize i am dreaming i jsut cant have that like full control of it


any tips?


thanks