Thread: Finding Your Dreamguide (3 In 1 )

i love this post, well untill the negativity rolled in. Im having problems finding my DG. the first one that "claimed" to be my DG. had a very false dark feel about them, i was very uneasy around them in my dream and i just knew that they werent really my DG. the second time, wasnt so bad. but i knew it wasnt my DG... the last time i was lucid i was asking around for my DG.

every one i asked. was shutting me out. blocking door ways and walk ways, and kept saying things like your DG isnt here, you wont find you DG and. it was like a whole dream town of people were all in on this little sick game. i dont really understand...... but then again, who really understands dreams. this was such a horrible dream though. left me in my dream feeling so empty and weird i had to wake myself up.. does anyone have any thoughts on this

Originally Posted by NoddyMaye

i love this post, well untill the negativity rolled in. Im having problems finding my DG. the first one that "claimed" to be my DG. had a very false dark feel about them, i was very uneasy around them in my dream and i just knew that they werent really my DG. the second time, wasnt so bad. but i knew it wasnt my DG... the last time i was lucid i was asking around for my DG.

every one i asked. was shutting me out. blocking door ways and walk ways, and kept saying things like your DG isnt here, you wont find you DG and. it was like a whole dream town of people were all in on this little sick game. i dont really understand...... but then again, who really understands dreams. this was such a horrible dream though. left me in my dream feeling so empty and weird i had to wake myself up.. does anyone have any thoughts on this

From what I've read from the topic, negative feelings just makes sure you won't meet your DG while you feel it.

Originally Posted by NoddyMaye

i love this post, well untill the negativity rolled in. Im having problems finding my DG. the first one that "claimed" to be my DG. had a very false dark feel about them, i was very uneasy around them in my dream and i just knew that they werent really my DG. the second time, wasnt so bad. but i knew it wasnt my DG... the last time i was lucid i was asking around for my DG.

every one i asked. was shutting me out. blocking door ways and walk ways, and kept saying things like your DG isnt here, you wont find you DG and. it was like a whole dream town of people were all in on this little sick game. i dont really understand...... but then again, who really understands dreams. this was such a horrible dream though. left me in my dream feeling so empty and weird i had to wake myself up.. does anyone have any thoughts on this

That I actually sound cool... It's so mysterious when things like this happen. Maybe your not ready to find you DG. I personally do not think I'm ready. Ask yourself the question. If you feel like you are ready then keep going and take it as a interesting journey. When you'll find your DG it will mean so much more to you. Things always mean more when they are harder to find. Imagine you had found your DG the first time, it be juste like "Oh, that was easy!" but if like what's happening to you now, every DC is trying to stop you from finding your DG, and then you find him/her, you'll feel very proud that you defeated all your DCs and achieved something so hard. It will give you a very good feeling, well, I think.

thanks, thats a good way of looking at it. i just didnt realise my DC's would be so uncooperative lol. i guess when im finally lucid again ill try aggain.. maybe this time ill be mean to them back haha

Originally Posted by NoddyMaye

thanks, thats a good way of looking at it. i just didnt realise my DC's would be so uncooperative lol. i guess when im finally lucid again ill try aggain.. maybe this time ill be mean to them back haha

Haha!

But, since your DCs are so weird and negative, maybe, if you attack them they will start attacking you, which is not necessarily bad but it might make it harder for you to find your DG or to simply stay lucid... I don't know, it might even find it good that they fight back 'cause they probably will... I think.

Hmm I never realized interactions with dream characters were such an important part of lucid dreaming - and such a complex phenomenon, too. The thing is I hardly ever meet anyone in my dreams. It's actually weird! When I'm non-lucid, there's lots of people, with whom I interact in various ways - from friendly conversations to arguments - but when I notice a dream sign and go lucid, POOF! all people are gone! And when they do appear, it's such a distressing factor that it causes me to wake up. Or they try to distract me and I end up non-lucid again.

BUT...

...the original poster's story made me think I might've met my dream guide before... Just when I began trying to get lucid in my dreams, a bit over a year ago, in November. In one of the first dreams I wrote down (non-lucid), I hung out with this cute, dark haired girl, who reminded me of a friend from highschool. We were in this white room - and suddenly, I felt I had to leave. I headed for the door, walked through it and as I was closing the door behind me, I promissed her I'd be back for her. And then I woke up. I never had a dream about her again. And... I always felt strangely guilty, as if I disappointed her. Weird feeling.

So I'm wondering...

...could this sort of attachment be purely incidental? Or was that an encounter with my dream guide, who didn't reveal herself to me back then because she knew I wasn't ready. Which in fact I wasn't, because I was barely beginning my adventure with LD's. Hmm... I know where the place I left her in my dream is, it's somewhere downtown - a place where I go lucid in my dreams A LOT. I think I know the exact building. So I do wonder... if I went there and called out for her, would she come out? Or if it WAS her at all.

Either way, an intriguing topic... Adding a whole new dimension to LD, for sure.

Wow! Thank you everyone for taking the time to read my tutorials.. I never knew it would have this big of a positive effect on people... I've been thinking about revising this tutorial because so many people have read it, and update it with more information..

Anyways, thanks again for reading... My PM box is always open for questions, so feel free to ask!

Originally Posted by spiritofthewolf

Wow! Thank you everyone for taking the time to read my tutorials.. I never knew it would have this big of a positive effect on people... I've been thinking about revising this tutorial because so many people have read it, and update it with more information..

Anyways, thanks again for reading... My PM box is always open for questions, so feel free to ask!

It would be good if you could revise it due to the tutorial's age. I would certainly re-read it like I have been with the current one. It would be greatly appreciated.

Originally Posted by NoddyMaye

i love this post, well untill the negativity rolled in. Im having problems finding my DG. the first one that "claimed" to be my DG. had a very false dark feel about them, i was very uneasy around them in my dream and i just knew that they werent really my DG. the second time, wasnt so bad. but i knew it wasnt my DG... the last time i was lucid i was asking around for my DG.

every one i asked. was shutting me out. blocking door ways and walk ways, and kept saying things like your DG isnt here, you wont find you DG and. it was like a whole dream town of people were all in on this little sick game. i dont really understand...... but then again, who really understands dreams. this was such a horrible dream though. left me in my dream feeling so empty and weird i had to wake myself up.. does anyone have any thoughts on this

hi noddymaye,
I'm a pretty frequent lucid dreamer and I've had lucid dreams where characters tell me the same thing and they make me feel uncomfortable. Some even chase after me. I usually ask any negative characters if they have a gift for me. Sometimes they have nothing and then just walk away. Others have some pretty amazing and surprising gifts to offer. Hope this helps so you can continue on to finding your guide.

Oh yea, and i'm a big fan of looking up at the sky in a lucid dream. If you haven't tried it, it's very breathtaking ; )

TY spiritofthewolf for this awsome tutorial ... I'm yet on my quest on finding my DG. Although i had some dreams while ago of a girl looking at me straight in the eyes, she also apeared in about 2 of my LDs. She always wants my attention by waving at me or anything. Meh ... I'm gonna ask her tonight ( ofcourse ) if she is really my DG.