Thread: If people have trouble maintaining the dream during lcd. sex

Some people (including me, at first) have trouble maintaining the dream or lucidity while having dream sex. There's a simple solutions.

First of all, a little fact of LD's is that concentration on pretty much anything (hands, sounds, etc.) prolongs the dream, and at times also makes it more realistic. That's why it's a good idea to examine your hands in extreme detail if you realise you're dreaming (and not spinning; I don't know why it's so popular, it doesn't work nearly as well for some people.)

Now, during lucid sex, I don't know about you, but I lose pretty much all thought and plans, and can't concentrate on anything else.

No need. You can concentrate on feelings - textile feelings (touch), emotional feelings, as long as you try to experience them as vivid and as much as you can.

For me, once I tried that, sex no longer means the end of an LD. Hope this helps, peops.

Originally posted by banner88
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First of all, a little fact of LD's is that concentration on pretty much anything (hands, sounds, etc.) prolongs the dream, and at times also makes it more realistic. That's why it's a good idea to examine your hands in extreme detail if you realise you're dreaming (and not spinning; I don't know why it's so popular, it doesn't work nearly as well for some people.)
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That's a great method. I read about it in a Casteneda book, and it really works wonders.

yeah, i stare at my fingers and try to feel my finger prints

For me this is not the best idea. I do it often still, cant resist, but it never prolonges my dreams. Usually shortens them. But dream spinning also works wonders for me....go figure.

Originally posted by banner88
Some people (including me, at first) have trouble maintaining the dream or lucidity while having dream sex. There's a simple solutions. *

First of all, a little fact of LD's is that concentration on pretty much anything (hands, sounds, etc.) prolongs the dream, and at times also makes it more realistic. That's why it's a good idea to examine your hands in extreme detail if you realise you're dreaming (and not spinning; I don't know why it's so popular, it doesn't work nearly as well for some people.)

Now, during lucid sex, I don't know about you, but I lose pretty much all thought and plans, and can't concentrate on anything else.

No need. You can concentrate on feelings - textile feelings (touch), emotional feelings, as long as you try to experience them as vivid and as much as you can. *

For me, once I tried that, sex no longer means the end of an LD. Hope this helps, peops.

Wow! This is excellent advice. I've never tried anything like it. Sex always ends up the destroyer of good lucid dreams for me, but still, it's so difficult to resist?

Thnaks for the advice.
An odd comparison to real life. I seem to loose my thoughts when sex is on topic.