I consider myself a fairly accomplished oneironaut, but one area I've consistently struggled with is having lucid sex. 9 times out of 10 the dream becomes too unstable, and I either wake up or the situation morphs into something weird and I just have to stop. On the occasions where I manage to hold the dream together, the sensations and visuals lack both vividness and realism. Sadly, I've never been able to reach what I would call a real climax...at most, I've have pleasant sensations that sort of build up but never really go anywhere.

Anyway, there are plenty of testimonies out there that would suggest it is indeed possible to have an orgasm in a lucid dream -- my question is how? The whole idea seems paradoxical to me. If getting too excited causes a dream to unravel, how does one even get close to having an orgasm without waking up? Something just doesn't add up. The only thing I've found that may help me in this pursuit is this topic. Other than that, I'm at a loss because it seems that the very nature of an orgasm is in direct conflict with how people generally keep their lucid dreams from ending. So, if you're able to have a real orgasms in your LDs, I'd love to hear how you do it.