Hello all,
I recently discovered that what I have is actually rather unique, because on looking around the Internet, I can't find anyone with as complete control as I have.
I rarely have lucid dreams, or at least not ones that I remember. Only perhaps once every two or three months. However, when I do get them, I have complete control, which I realise now is super rare. I have never had anything I want in a dream rejected. And I have never done anything particularly special to get lucid dreams or to get control, it just happened naturally.
And the reason why I'm telling you this is because I believe perhaps I can share it with you. That's because I think I know why this happens to me and so few others. You see, I genuinely believe that in dreams, everything that happens only happens because you are expecting it to happen. Clearly, my belief has been proven true because every time that I realise I'm dreaming, I gain complete and total control.
Think about it, how can anything happen in a dream that you do not expect to happen, when the dream is being generated from within your brain? It's impossible. Everything that happens in dreams is generated by yourself. If you expect to be scared, you will be scared. If you expect to be in some lovely beach in Hawaii with beautiful females (or males) surrounding you, you will be.
To give you an example of what happens, the very first episode I can remember from some years back went something like this:
I was being pursued and everything was very dark. I wasn't really seeing anything, but I was in an urban area with lots of narrow alleyways, and I was running really fast from an unseen pursuer. Then I suddenly realised that this is really unlikely and I must be dreaming, and that if I'm dreaming then whatever I expect to happen is what will happen, and I'm not in any real danger.
So I stopped running, turned around and looked at the person who was pursuing me. He was some middle aged, pale, tall man with wide eyes who looked kind of helpless. At this point, I became angry at him for scaring me and I attacked him, and chopped him up into lots of small pieces so that he lay on the floor in pieces. Then I stepped back and looked at him, and my anger was replaced with hearty laughter as I pointed at him (his eyes were still working even though he was in pieces, and he was looking even more helpless). I kept laughing and pointing at him, happy that I had taken my revenge, until eventually I was satisfied (in real life I am not this mean). Then I transported myself somewhere else, and the dream went on. I know this sounds like a very basic dream, I have had plenty of more interesting ones since which perhaps I should have used as examples.
The point is that if you adopt the same belief as me, that whatever happens in your dream only happens because you expect it to happen, then perhaps you can achieve this complete control too. During my dreams, all I think to myself is "whatever I expect to happen is what will happen" and "things only ever happen because i am expecting them to happen next." and then I just decide what I want, make myself expect it to happen, and it happens. Invariably, and without exception, this has ALWAYS worked for me for years.
I would be really interested to hear how this technique works for all of you.
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