Hi Sageous, Yea it can be sometimes! But mostly it's OK! Thanks In life we have to learn to play all these different roles. So we bring out different traits in our personality to match these situations. Some people believe that we have a unique 'self'. I don't. But i have my unique truths. Dreamscape is a place where our ego is binned. But lucid dreaming is a place where you can work with ego. That big elephant in the room that calls itself ME. What i am trying to do at this point is to try to balance that thing called ME with the ethereal imaginative multi-self that couldn't give a flying pig poo whether it's me you or anybody else, just, like a small child, wants to explore this very exciting universe that exists inside and outside of us. Not much to ask really is is? haha! I am taking heed of this control thing though, thanks.