I became lucid today and tried an experiment and went more into a passive role.

I started asking if the DC wants to kiss me. The DC said no and i asked her:

Can you say me which of this girls want to kiss me ?

Then she started pointing "maybe" so and so, she named the name of the other DC pointed in the direction.

So i went there and asked, but she said no and pointed to another one and said "maybe" she, but it still did not work.

It started to work partially after i asked 5 times or so.

Have you got ideas for higher success rate ?

I thought i would ask the DC the next time:

Who of those girls would kiss me, guaranteed ?

My DCs are weird... they behave like they are outside of my mind and i have stopped influencing them.