Cities in the Astral

Wow! I had heard that a LD master may be able to talk with the dead, but I have never had a dead loved one until a few months ago to try it with. This is the second time I have got to see my dad since he passed away around June (3rd if i count one where he was just a DC).
Last night contained at least 5 LDs and he interupted 4 of them to visit me.
In all 4 interupted LDs I would suddenly teleport to the house we used to live in together and he would be there.
Mostly this string of LDs is too emotional and personal for me to sit and go into detail here. I also refused to get out of bed and makke notes as I just kept having LDs, so didn't feel like getting up, so the recall has faded a bit.
High lights from each of the dreams.
1st lucid dream) I was teelling him that I was nervous aabout my wife having surgery in two days. I said that I could not stand the thought of loosing them both so soon together. He walked away and busied himself. I thought he may have been frustrated that I was not focused soley on seeing him.
2nd lucid dream) He took me around the front of his garden. He said something strange as he worked on something. "Don't think I am spending all my time here. I do my thing for about 11 hours and come here for 1"
I have no idea what that meant.
3rd lucid dream) I put my hands up on the sides of his face and am amazed by how much it feels like being near him did in real life. I notice he is taller than me, but was not in real life. He asks me 'what?' I tell him, it is just that you died in real life about two months ago, and I am amazed that you are here. This seems like I am actually visiting with your spirit" He looked a little angery and turned his back on me and walked a few feet away. It seemed like he had forgotten that he was dead and I had reminded him. He then muttered "I don't want to be alive anyways!"
4th) i take a walk through hisgarden and there is a glowing blue/purple lotus plant blooming. this is of special importance to me and my dad. In paintings from India of heaven, the lotus are blue. True lotus never comes in blue, so if you see a blue lotus it is either heaven or a god is standing near them. Blue lotus only blooms in heaven. There was a beautiful blue lotus in my dad's garden.

The total duration of each of the four dreams varied from 5-15 minutes.