false awakening

This is the third night in a row now, I have the first time this happened posted on here as well.
His experience isn't changing very much, the first time he could see himself and me laying on the bed asleep but he was across the room, looking at us, and then he saw just a big black ball of really nothing..but it was talking to him through his mind, this thing had no facial or body features.
The second night he saw the shape of a full upper body, but still no face.
The thing took him to the same place he was the first time, which was that graveyard full of children strapped to the ground and he paralyzed him to not be able to move or look away while he burned the children, and then brought him back to our room and said to him "remember, I'm watching you", he again touched his physical body and woke up, to our tv being on on some tv show completely frozen with some guy just staring into the camera, I experienced that part because he woke me up and showed me and then told me about the dream/OOBE happening again.
And last night (the third night) this same thing happened all over again he "woke up" in our room and this guy was there again only this time he saw the same only the upper body no face, except for a pair of really bright, bright blue eyes and he tried to tell it no and he wasn't going with it, and it grabbed him and pulled him to that graveyard again to experience this whole thing over again.
My boyfriend said he continuously tried to ask it questions but the only answers this thing gave him was
"These children deserve this"
and my boyfriend also asked it, it's name and this thing said it's name was Francis.

Please help me...I'm getting extremely worried. Every night this has happened, around the time my boyfriend wakes up my son is waking up as well. I'm terrified.

My boyfriend today was telling me about a dream or possibly out of body experience he had last night.
He isn't one to believe or practice in out of body experiences. So this was odd, he said he "woke up" in the dream at 2am and he was standing in our room where he saw himself and me laying bed asleep, the room was dark with very little light. He saw a shapeless black entity that had no face and spoke to him telepathically. This thing led him away from the room and brought him to a graveyard covered in children laying tied down to the ground and this thing paralyzed him and made him unable to close his eyes or look away from these children who were telling him to run and get away, and this thing lit the children on fire. After it was all over it said to my boyfriend "I have you now, I control you." and he was back in our room and he touched his physical body laying in bed and he woke up to our son crying and it was 6am. Help me please I'm worried.