with me, almost every dream i have is lucid, probably because i only dream when i am in light sleep. I really don't know why i don't dream during rem but, i don't know... i am able to control what i dream about for a while, but then i somehow wander into thoughts about somehow related things. i am crazy i think. i also usually dream about what i really liked about the day, cause for me dreaming is how i get away from the world.