non-lucid

a few years ago i had a dream about a girl named jody in the dream we were in love but then she died. then around a year later i had another dream about this other girl i dont remember her name but i think it started with a k in this dream we were love but her dad killed and i think he raped her when i woke up from both off these dreams i hurt i felt like i really lost someone close to me. also for open minded people do you think dreams could be real could they excist in another dimension becuase when your dreaming there real to you