Babies....Babies Everywhere!

Good Morning Everyone

I'm new around here but I decided to post because I need more opinions on my dreams.

For a few years..I kept dreaming about this 1 kid. This dream went on for about 4 years. Each dream was different but in it..I always had this little curly haired little boy! His age & skin complexion would vary from dream to dream but he was always this sweet beautiful kid with curly hair and I knew that he was my kid

He'd never say anything but was always happy around me & seemed like a real doll :D

Total I've had about 22 dreams of this boy! Now I know some people are gonna say that baby dreams mean this or that..but I'm not so sure :shock:

I have nothing against dream dictionaries but I know that dreams are personal for each individual & they mean different things to different people. And NO this was not some secret wish to have a child. :roll:
I like kids as much as the next person but now is not the time :?
And I sure don't think these kids are me because I dont get that ME vibe..if that makes sense :?

I feel like something deeper is going on here but I have no real proof that it is...I can't even get anyone to really take it seriously..they always think its my biological clock but I know that its not :roll:

When I wake up from these dreams I always feel sad..like my kid is out there somewhere & it makes my soul hurt :(

2 days ago I had yet another dream! I haven't had one of those baby dreams in about 2 years but here it was!

In the dream I'm sitting in the passenger seat of a car..my boyfriend is driving & in the back in a car seat was the cutest little girl I've ever seen!
She was this adorable chubby bundle of joy..she had to be around 10 months old with dark curly hair & dark brown eyes. She had her hand in her mouth & was kinda grinning. Then my boyfriend went to get her out of the car seat to give her kisses & stuff and she looked to be so in love with him & he looked like he was so in love with her too!

It was the sweetest thing I ever saw! At first I thought the child was a young cousin of mine because I got that vibe at first..but when I woke up..that feeling stayed with me. Oddly enough..my young cousin & I are extremely close. I'm 30 years old & she's 4.

Since day 1 we were inseparable & we don't like being apart..she actually looks more like me than her own parents! Theres this divine bond between her & I that tends to make her mother jealous sometimes.
I feel like in some other life she may have been my child :?

So I'm wondering are these kids my future kids? I have no problems if they are..I just wanna know something because I don't think its right to be teased this way :(

So how do you tell people your heart hurts over some child that doesn't exist or may ever exist?

I really wish I could talk to someone who can relate..seems like everytime my heart beats I see her face & her smile :?

Its very odd to feel this way but I do

And yes I am a bit uhh "psychic" (I use that term loosely)..I've dreamt of the birth of a few kids in my family and things like that..so when dreams affect me more than usual..I tend to pay closer attention

I just need extra help with this one..its been almost following me around ever since

Can anyone relate to this?

Thats really interesting! :shock:

I cannot relate to this however, there's only one other person at this board that I can think of who's had an experience like this, but she's gone away for a while. :(

What you said about them being your future kids could be right... though one tries not to assume about things like that too much. :)

Another thing that could be is, perhaps they are your children from a past life? Memories of children loved so much that the memory of them hangs inside your soul, finding release in the midst of sleep as your subconcious combines those memories with your current life. :|

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Originally posted by Aphius
Thats really interesting! :shock:

I cannot relate to this however, there's only one other person at this board that I can think of who's had an experience like this, but she's gone away for a while. :(

What you said about them being your future kids could be right... though one tries not to assume about things like that too much. :)

Another thing that could be is, perhaps they are your children from a past life? Memories of children loved so much that the memory of them hangs inside your soul, finding release in the midst of sleep as your subconcious combines those memories with your current life. :|

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Hey Aphius! :D

Yes I've always thought it was interesting too..especially since I wasn't all that "baby friendly" when it first started but these kids got to me somehow :?

And you're right..I try not to assume much & I sure don't think running out & getting pregnant will help :lol: although it might..but naahhhhh :P

Past life kids? Hey thats also possible! I'm interested in seeing what everyone else thinks..this should be fun ;)

Thanks for the PM as well..I'll check that out ;)

Now that I think about it, I had a dream a loong time ago where I met my daughter....
Very Very strange..... :|

Unfortunately I've forgotten most of it, and its before my dream journal was started...

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Originally posted by Placebo
Now that I think about it, I had a dream a loong time ago where I met my daughter....
Very Very strange..... :|

Unfortunately I've forgotten most of it, and its before my dream journal was started...

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Hey Placebo..so did this dream come true or no? :?

Ok people..I'm gonna need a strait jacket soon..this dream stuff is bothering me :o :damnit:

Its like I have all of this puzzle with no pieces :o :damnit:

I had another dream/lucid dream :shock:

So last night I'm dreaming about my boyfriend &/or New Orleans..nothing memorable..just random good feelings..some goofiness :dreaming:

Then this VOICE cuts in..like friggin Barbara Walters & says "Please remember to bring your son to church" or "Don't forget to bring your son to church"...something like that :disconcerted:

And I had a real thought..I was like "Son..oh gawd..what son?"..and then it all faded & I went back to my regularly scheduled dream world :tongue:

This was not the voice of ANYONE that I've ever known past or present..it was a beautiful voice though :angel: it all happened so fast that I almost forgot about it until I got into a discussion with someone about dreams :)

So of course I'm wondering what this means..#1..I don't have a son..I don't even have a pet! #2..I don't go to church..I despise church :alien:

Its just not my thing..I'm definitely spiritual but not into organized religion so anytime my aunt (its always her) tries to get me to go..I try to fake a cramp..headache..seizure..anything! :D

I'm so good with messages in relation to Other people but not so much myself...GGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR :pissed:

Does anyone have any comments..suggestions about ANY of my sordid dreams? :holyshit: :whyme:

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Now that I think about it, I had a dream a loong time ago where I met my daughter....
Very Very strange..... *:| *

Unfortunately I've forgotten most of it, and its before my dream journal was started...

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Hey Placebo..so did this dream come true or no? :?[/b]

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Well... I haven't had a daughter yet, if thats what you mean.. :D

Hi Dreamhawk, and welcome to DV! :D

Very interesting dreams - and I'm sorry they seem to be causing you so much angst - they are obviously very important.

I had a couple of thoughts:

Have you ever had a miscarriage or abortion? You don't need to answer this here obviously! I know that we deal with these experiences in different ways, trying to rationalise them or inventing ways of obscuring the pain if it wasnt acknowledged at the time. This might explain why she keeps comming up in your dreams, as the subconscious may be trying to give you opportunities to greive. My mother dreams about a daughter who was miscarried - and even once did an abstract family portrait, a stream of consciousness thing, which had an extra member - a young girl - and she was quite surprised when someone pointed this out.

Not sure what I believe about all this but - the past life/ future life thing may have something in it, or it could be a soul mate conection to someone alive today. I have had plenty of dreams and OBEs where characters have appeared who are qualitatively different to all other dream people. They are often powerful figures, dream teachers, high priestesses, witches etc and the overall feeling is that they have come into my dream from the outside, and they have even said as much or alluded to this.

If you can go lucid the best way, IMO, to understand this would be to ask your dream child. Ask (politely and nicely) direct questions and insist that the answers are not too cryptic! Things like: Why are you in my dream? Who are you? What do you want? How can I help you? Or another suggestion, if that seems too direct, would be to ask for a present which can be a symbolic summary of the issue. If you were to exchange presents, what would you choose to give? You can then make this/these objects in waking life and meditate upon them at your leisure.

There's a dream intrepretation section on DV - you could try posting there as well.

Hope this helps :)

Hey Slim :D

The dreams are bothering me in a way that is puzzling because I'm sure something is there but I'm missing it :mad:

I have no problems answering your questions..Nope..never been pregnant, never had an abortion. I was never really a baby/kid person..I love them & all....love playing with them but I wasn't the type to always run up to pregnant ladies & rub their bellies or go to baby showers..I think those things are corny as hell :eek: :lol: No offense to anyone out there :P

But these dreams made me feel like WOW if these are my future kids..COOL..I can handle that..not that I'd run out & get pregnant either..does that make sense? Its kinda like knowing exactly what you're gonna get for Christmas..so its easy to wait...BUT..you don't know how you know..or why you know...yanno? LOL :eh:

I do have a soul mate in this life. My cousin's 2nd daughter and I are really close. It use to be that she & I would be stressed out when we were apart. My cousin thinks that since I was there at her birth..somehow my "force" was imprinted upon her child :lol: We're still close & its so cool because its like she is my daughter..she does things that I use to do when I was her age and alot of times she will slip & call me Mommy :smitten:

I rarely dream about her though but I do believe there is some otherworldly connection there. That little girl was the first girl I ever dreamt of..up until then..it was all boys..that same 1 kid with the curly hair who never says anything :whyme:

All through my life..most of my dreams did have messages or they came true which is why I felt the need to pay closer attention to them ;)

I might have had 1 or 2 OBE's but I can't be sure and as for powerful figures..well I get messages from time to time like I did the other night...but I never SEE anyone..I just hear them..this is the first message I've gotten in about a year :shock:

Usually its just someone speaking to me in normal tones like a regular person would..but this voice was LOUD like it needed to be heard over the other ramblings in my brain which is weird because these are voices of no one that I know personally so when I hear some strange voice..trust me..I pay attention..things like this have been going on since I was 5 :shock:

I did pray last night..I prayed for clarification..a sign that wasnt too indirect so that I could piece this together and make sense out of it :smartie:

So far..I didn't get anything but a sex dream :bigteeth: :laughhard: :bravo:

I don't know how to go lucid..hell I just figured out what it meant not that long ago :shock: but if I stumble onto it again..I'll give it a shot ;)

So thats it for now :whyme: :help:

OMG OMG OMG :shock: :shock: :shock:

I posted a few days ago that I had a dream about my son! My son that doesn't exist in real life, that is...

I was just standing there, holding him. He was 2 years old, blond hair and big brown eyes. The cutest thing you'll EVER see!!!! :smitten:

And my arms were starting to ache like MAD from holding him so long, but I wouldn't put him down because I loved him too much. I was a teen mother in this dream, and I kept thinking of all the things I'd lost having this child and all the sacrifices I made, and how my life would NEVER be the same again.. but then he smiled at me and kissed my cheek with so much love that I realized that nothing else mattered, so long as I had him. :angel:

And I mean WOW this was strange. I don't even like kids. lol I mean they're okay, but I'm not in a hurry to have any!!!

I woke up feeling such a LOSS that he wasn't there. And I thought, hey, I wouldn't mind having that particular kid. I'll never ever forget that dream.

Anyway, maybe some people have these type of dreams because... because of our parental instincts that I think we all must have. Hey, maybe it's your actual kids visiting you to get a glimpse of you before they're born. ;) Who knows? I sure would like to, though.

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OMG OMG OMG *:shock: *:shock: *:shock: *


Anyway, maybe some people have these type of dreams because... because of our parental instincts that I think we all must have. Hey, maybe it's your actual kids visiting you to get a glimpse of you before they're born. ;) Who knows? I sure would like to, though.

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:lol: Hey Scwigglie

I'm glad someone knows what I mean..these dreams are great yet horrible at the same time..but I've had so many of these dreams its somehow worse :cry:

But I know exactly what you mean..I wouldnt mind having THAT particular kid :D

Its very possible that these are my kids visiting me before they get here..its been said that I visited my Great Grandfather before I was born..and he knew exactly what I would eventually look like :shock:

I believe he passed away before I was physically born but he described me to his wife..he said I was a cute big eyed baby :shock: :lol: which is completely true :laughhard: :laughtillhurts: :holyshit:

Ok I dont look like a bug or anything but I have like those big Heather Graham eyes :biggrin:

Wow..I never thought of that Scwigg..they're coming to get a glimpse of ME? To make sure I'm not like Mommie Dearest with the wire hangers? :shock: Like an audition huh? :happyhappy:

I guess he's coming..I'm not pregnant or anything but that "take your son to church" thing makes me wonder if I'm gonna have any control over this at all :shock: I mean if you have some higher power telling you what your unborn child needs..I think its pretty safe to say that this is preordained..right? :whyme:

I'm so glad people over here understand..on other boards..I have folks telling me that I'm reading way too much into this :roll:

What they don't know is that alot of times..my dreams have a way of coming true & its not the first time I've gotten a message from a higher source before but usually its something I can control..something I can handle :)

I do not do well with situations that I can't handle/have no control over :cry:

I once had a vision that someone related to my ex-boyfriend was gonna die..I went crazy for like 2 days looking for answers..asking people what they thought..things like that :( until I just decided to let it go..if its gonna happen..its gonna happen..and theres nothing you can do :(

Then the phone call came..my ex called me about a week later..told me his grandfather had died & how he cried like a baby..I felt so bad/responsible somehow although there was nothing I could do :(

I wanted so bad to tell him that I "saw" this coming but you can't tell people things like that..its not an experience that all people have :?

I never knew his grandfather..I met the guy once & that was it but I saw that whoever it was that died had a huge impact on my exs life & he would be devastated..and he was :(

It hurt me to know that I couldn't do anything about it :cry: to protect him from the pain :(

A baby isnt a bad omen or anything but like I said..I don't do well with things that are beyond my control and I feel like my last dream is telling me that this is another thing I have no control over :shock:

Does this make sense? Sorry for rambling :lol: :mrgreen: :okbyenow:

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Ok I dont look like a bug or anything but I have like those big Heather Graham eyes *[/b]

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Ha! :D I love her! I thought she was great in Austin Powers. Sorry, off topic. :P

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I'm so glad people over here understand..on other boards..I have folks telling me that I'm reading way too much into this *[/b]

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I think that's because not many people have these sort of dreams or \"visions\" even. I'm sure anyone who had one would automatically relate.. it's something you have to experience. And the intensity of the emotions is just.. :shock: undeniable!

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It hurt me to know that I couldn't do anything about it *to protect him from the pain *[/b]

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That's gotta be tough. :( I have a close friend who used to have those type of dreams ALL the time, and it was always about someone's death or something bad like that, and they would always come true. She's very psychic.. I don't know if I believe in psychics all that much, but she definitely has something there.. well anyway, one day she just used her abilities and closed her mind off completely to those type of dreams. She just couldn't handle it and didn't want the responsibility.

Anyway, I think your best bet is to become lucid. I know you said earlier that you just recently stumbled upon the idea, but I have a feeling you'd be good at it if you tried.. and oh man, it would solve so many mysteries!!! I mean, you could just start talking to your kids and ask them these very questions. ;)

P.S. Don't worry, rambling is good. :D

:tongue: Hey Scwigg

Yes I love Heather Graham too..she has beautiful eyes :shock: :lol:

Thats the sucky part about these things is the fact that no one can relate..so theres not many people who I can go to for advice :(

I found out after she passed that my Grandmother was sorta psychic too..but its too late now :?

Luckily I don't have visions ALL the time..they come & go but when they're here..I tend to run around like a chicken trying to figure out what it means. Fortunately mine aren't bad..seeing the death of my exs Grandfather was the only bad one :?

I dont know if I'd want to close my mind off..not sure it would work :whyme: when I was younger these messages/visions would come to me when I was fully awake but now that I'm older..and have TONS of other crap on my brain like bills, school, loans, etc, etc..they have to get me while I'm asleep :P

Ok so how do I go lucid...I've tried that but I just feel like I'm laying there not sleeping but not lucid either..just laying there with my eyes closed thinking really dumb things :lol:

Yes that would help alot if I could go lucid..not sure how though :?